Rivervixen
Forum Donator 2023/24
Glad it made you smile!I can relate to that! It made me smile; thank you
Glad it made you smile!I can relate to that! It made me smile; thank you
I know exactly how you feel. I had a skin condition in my twenties that was quite rare and unusual. I was sent to see a specialist in dermatology who got all excited once she had decided what I had and told me how rare it was she asked (I thought) if her student could take a look. I thought ok, why not. So there I was, laying on a bed wearing very little but a one size covers nothing NHS gown when in walked not one student doctor but a whole class of student doctors plus a junior and a registrar who all came in to see my sorry exposed flesh. And all asked to examine various patches with magnifying glasses..... I was absolutely horrified but tongue tied as I had agreed to it and had to put up with the indignity. After they had all left, my consultant did apologise and say even she was surprised how many had appeared from other rooms to take a look. Lesson learned - I now ask how many student(s) are likely to be involved.Honestly, normally I'd let it go anyway. The ward's a significantly more stressful meeting place just by virtue of being a ward, and I knew her last appointment had said no because he was in the waiting room when we arrived. Students have gotta learn somehow and there's no point in saying yes to one and no to the other, I just wasn't expecting two.
Dementia is such a cruel condition.I’m having a sad day about my mum today. . It’s just so sad. I’ve told my husband and kids if I’m diagnosed with dementia I’m off to Dignitas. I do believe in allowing a person the choice of when they would like to leave this world for the next.
I am so sorry your family are having a hard time @weepweeps .Having seen members of my own family struggle in older age I'm hoping we have our own version of Digitas in this Country before I get too much older, it would be nice to have the right to choose.
I’m having a sad day about my mum today. . It’s just so sad. I’ve told my husband and kids if I’m diagnosed with dementia I’m off to Dignitas. I do believe in allowing a person the choice of when they would like to leave this world for the next.
I'm very sorry you're dealing with this, just wanted to offer my support. I know how it can feel. My grandmother has similar issues and I know it takes a toll on my mom sometimes, especially since she is the one taking care of her. I also worry for my own mother sometimes as she is getting older. I agree with you, I also hope to see the day when people can freely make that choice. I feel it is much more dignified than what some people currently have to go through.
So my brother has reverted back to his vile self. Work has been interesting for a range of reasons and then today I woke up feeling really nervous about my driving lesson. I've not been this nervous about a lesson for a long time so currently trying to give myself a talking to!
I’m so sorry wanted to offer my support and some hugs xxI’m having a sad day about my mum today. . It’s just so sad. I’ve told my husband and kids if I’m diagnosed with dementia I’m off to Dignitas. I do believe in allowing a person the choice of when they would like to leave this world for the next.
I’m so sorry wanted to offer my support and some hugs xx
I'm struggling as our friends are having their 12 week baby scan today. They came for new year and announced the pregnancy as she was suffering from morning sickness and not drinking.
I'm pleased for them but I always have these feelings of sadness and they're our last friends to have a baby. I'm just waiting for them to officially announce it on facebook. Infertility is no fun
Bless you. It’s ok to feel pleased for them and sad at the same time. You’re human. It hurts.
I'm sorry that you're feeling sad. My husbands grandad has Alzheimer's and dementia and it's awful. We saw him the weekend before last for the first time in two years and he's a shadow of his former self. Just remember that your mum knows she is loved and she loves you too (((hugs)))I’m having a sad day about my mum today. . It’s just so sad. I’ve told my husband and kids if I’m diagnosed with dementia I’m off to Dignitas. I do believe in allowing a person the choice of when they would like to leave this world for the next.
I'm sorry that your brother is so vile. How did your driving lesson go?So my brother has reverted back to his vile self. Work has been interesting for a range of reasons and then today I woke up feeling really nervous about my driving lesson. I've not been this nervous about a lesson for a long time so currently trying to give myself a talking to!
I'm sorry that your brother is so vile. How did your driving lesson go?
I think vileness is his normal self and the niceness is just an act. He'll push us too far one day and that day is coming.
Driving lesson was fine, I enjoyed it. My instructor is much better for me than the other one I had lessons with. We make a lesson goal at the start, evaluate at the end and I have no problem telling him I'm nervous or what I'm struggling with or stopping mid lesson to discuss something etc. He says I've made progress but I'm too hard on myself.
Have woken up to sunshine (and the wind too!) I am imagining spring, being able to buy plants for the garden and creating a riot of colour. The buds on the Christmas cactus are starting to turn pink but not sure if the whole thing looks a bit droopy. I've given it a little water this morning so maybe I put it back in the wrong position. Its older than me, I'll be so sad if it dies.
I am glad you have enjoyed your driving lesson and found an instructor you feel comfortable with. Sorry about your brother, I agree about staying out of his way as much as possibleI think vileness is his normal self and the niceness is just an act. He'll push us too far one day and that day is coming.
Driving lesson was fine, I enjoyed it. My instructor is much better for me than the other one I had lessons with. We make a lesson goal at the start, evaluate at the end and I have no problem telling him I'm nervous or what I'm struggling with or stopping mid lesson to discuss something etc. He says I've made progress but I'm too hard on myself.
Have woken up to sunshine (and the wind too!) I am imagining spring, being able to buy plants for the garden and creating a riot of colour. The buds on the Christmas cactus are starting to turn pink but not sure if the whole thing looks a bit droopy. I've given it a little water this morning so maybe I put it back in the wrong position. Its older than me, I'll be so sad if it dies.
If you need help @Lorcan you need help. Never be ashamed of asking for help. It's good to admit that you can't cope with stuff and good that you can recognise it. You've had a very busy few months. No wonder you're exhausted!