This year has been a massive struggle so far in every way possible. The death of the Queen and all the articles about the funeral bought a lot of upset about my mum back this week. It's really hard to mourn someone you've not seen or spoken to for a year you don't get the usual triggers of missed visits or calls. We also couldn't have a funeral so there has been no closure. This week I have cried for three days I think for mum but also a lot of other reasons. I have been feeling the most amazing anger, rage really, that's not like me, I don't know where it's coming from. Hopefully the tears are resolving this.
My normal way to deal with stress is gardening or walking. I tore my left bicep 3 months ago and damaged the tendons so gardening has been virtually non existent. A gang of youths has been targeting lone walkers this summer, they picked on me three times before I became too scared to go out and gave up my daily walks. I was determined not to be intimidated the first time when they hid in bushes and threw stones at me. The second time they rode their bikes at me fast screaming at me and pulling away at the last minute, the final straw was when five of them trapped me in a circle of bikes and kept riding round me laughing. If I have had to go to the shops it has been via the main road as quick as possible and keeping to the busy times so I would always have people around me. Today was a lovely day so I made myself walk, deciding as long as I was back before they came out of school I'd be okay. All was fine until the very last bit, almost home and someone came up behind me on an electric scooter, hit me hard on the arm and shoved me. I was really shocked, I didn't hear him coming. I don't think it was one of the gang, it was an older boy, late teens. He was gone quickly out of sight so I didn't get a good look. I did yell some swear words after him of the type I never ever use, I don't swear normally at all but boy did it feel good. I'm thinking of getting someone to take me to an out of the way place, preferably a high hill where I can scream obscenities at the world, it could be quite healing!
As I'm really battling with my mental and physical health at the moment and wonder sometimes why I bother, I have decided to take a break from the forum after today. I am staying away from the internet altogether and cancelling all my online subscriptions ecept haybox which will hopefully just keep coming! I would like to return to leave tributes in rainbow bridge when my palliative care boys pass as they are all part of the gang that used to be so active on the forum in better times. I wish you all well and hope everyone who is struggling feels better soon.