AbiS
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Maybe it is not the right time for you to lose weight. You have to be ready mentally. You only want to lose nine pounds. Is it possible you can learn to accept yourself the way you are? If you are comparing yourself to a younger you that is unfair as our bodies change and we cannot accept to weigh the same as we did in our twenties.
I know what you mean and I am adjusting my weight as I get older. And yes, at 37 I am starting to feel like a grown up and I don't like it! I also don't like how all my clothes feel tight either.
However - in my 20s I weighed 8st 12, when I got married 4.5 years ago I weighed 9st4. I would now happily settle at 10st (actually - I would like to be 9st12 so I can keep eating cake ). I think I am finding it difficult because in diets from the past I was only looking after me and would just cut out carbs etc but now I have to feed MrS as well and so changing the way I eat completely is difficult because I would then end up having to do a meal for me and then one for him. And just when I am getting somewhere with calorie counting he then decides he wants a takeaway and there goes all my good intentions! *sigh!
Think I will start feeling better about myself when I can go back to running next month.