Hi
@Erwin & Baymax - this thread is super long now!
I think you're a genuine poster trying to get a bit of help and I think I can understand why you wanted to 'start again' in terms of posting - which didn't really work out but hey... there'll be better days ahead ☺ I'm so sorry about that dog attack - heartbreaking - and I hope you manage to get your new situation sorted with these piggies so you can be happy that they're kept safe. I'll only post the once so apols if it's long but I learned a few things in the few months I've been here that I didn't know before.
It will surely surprise you to know (because it
really surprised me!) that sometimes people do come on here and completely make things up in the hopes of getting lots of sympathy and reassuring comments. Or even just for something to do. This is my first forum and I've only been on since last Autumn but the first time I saw it happen I asked Hubs who 'does computers' for a living and he said it totally happens all the time, everywhere. Sometimes people have a mental health problem and need a bit of help generally - or they just go a bit stir-crazy in lockdown - or they might just do it for a laugh with their mates - but people have even posted internet pictures of guinea pigs claiming them as their own pets and coming up with a mighty complicated life story about it all which just wastes everyone's time when there are guinea-pigs and owners out there in need of support. You can understand how people who've been lying awake at night worrying or thinking or praying over someone's situation feel when they find out it was a hoax.
And sometimes people who don't like the firm attitude the forum presents in very clearly
not supporting intentional breeding and trying to be pro-rescue instead will stir things up and try to turn members against each other, or insult the staff and volunteers who spend a lot of their time (before/after work and fitting around their own families) trying to help Guinea-pigs and desperate owners all around the world, often in countries where their society in general doesn't agree with
any pets but doesn't stop people selling them! Sometimes a breeder (who might, apart from the obvious disagreement on pig issues, be a perfectly lovely person) could have a genuine problem (like a rat in a shed where their 'pets' are kept) that piggie people can actually advise with if they are sensible and discreet, but we don't want to 'help' people breeding dozens of pigs. Even most humans these days, given the choice, won't keep breeding more baby humans all their lives - they limit it to a number they can look after properly, rather than using the stone-age way of having as many babies as possible and hoping a few survive. We could show our animal companions the same compassion, is all.
And
sometimes younger people get a bit upset because the forum is over 18s and they have a pet they love very much (that no doubt their parents have said "it's
Your pet and
Your responsibility" in quite an unhelpful way) and they are trying to get advice and help for that pet because they're not in charge of the money/vet visits but they feel excluded (I have teens - in many ways they
are excluded from a lot of things in life) and they can't always understand that it's not that we're anti-young people, it's to do with the law and trying to keep kids safe so they don't get groomed by creeps online (so this forum with all its years of experience doesn't get shut down and the thousands of piggies that have helped to build that experience up aren't lost forever). Although obvs kids can legitimately get a parent to post on their behalf. Information about piggy welfare is always freely shared.
Just be straight with the folks here and they'll always be straight with you.
Good luck with your bonding mate!