Ps: Now you've made me curious about the mysterious roommate! Who is he/she and why have you never met?
Ahhh, the housemate! Well I knew about her from our first date. He told me that he'd known her for about 8 years. When he'd split up with his ex, he needed somewhere to stay, and she had a spare room, so he moved in in November 2013. He said they didn't get on too well now they lived together, and he couldn't wait to move out. It didn't bother me because I figured I'd get to know her, and go round to his. I hoped we'd become friends. When he said she's been single for 11 years I even joked that she must be in love with him, and she'll hate me!
So it did start off as a joke, and with work and stuff it was easier for him to come to my flat. It only became an issue after about 6 months when I realised it wasn't funny any more, why doesn't he want me to meet her. His opinion is I don't need to meet her. She's not important to him so why do we need to meet. I haven't met his best friend either so what's the issue. When I spoke to one of the friends I have met, he said he doesn't know what is going on with housemate, but from what my BF has casually mentioned in the past, she isn't the type of person who'd want him bringing girls back to her house.
I think, (and my friend - she has seen the housemate's tweets and FB comments to my BF), that she is indeed in love with him and is trying to get his attention (which looking at Twitter and FB, he doesn't give). You should have seen the cake she made him for his birthday!
He's either:
Stupid and hasn't noticed she's besotted with him
Stupid and there is something going on
Realises she likes him but is trying to ignore it
Stupid and his true belief is there is no need for me to meet her
He is generally an independent bloke and doesn't need many people in his life. He only sees his family at Christmas, and only then because he has to. They only live 20 minutes away. He has one male best friend (who I haven't met). He sees him once a month at the very most. I have met a really lovely couple who he knows. He has another friend he's mentioned but I'm only aware he's seen him twice in a year. When he's working away he prefers it when colleagues aren't staying in the same hotel cause he'd rather not socialise.
I've just read that back and realised it's rather long