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Please someone help us

Thank you all :)
He still has his up and downs (or maybe it’s me watching him too much - I find it hard to step back and not watch/worry all the time)!
he is nibbling though. If we can get the teeth under control, it’s just his bladder we need to manage too. To try reduce the cystitis and squeaking.
Like the vet said, he has the two most annoying conditions, being a dental and bladder pig!
 
I don’t suppose anyone has any tips to ease my anxiety? I’m worrying about him every second of the day and it’s affecting my health! I find myself constantly wanting to watch him or encourage him to eat. Even if I go out of the house, I don’t enjoy myself as I’m worrying about Odin.

any tips appreciated!
 
Sorry to hear you’ve had such a time of it @Marvel_piggie_squad and sorry to hear you feel so anxious 😞 I went through feeling the same when my boys would have a fall out and would worry all the time when out the house. I found that speaking to people on the forum (who are like minded) and posting and asking for advice is what helped me through. I don’t know what I would have done without @alpacasqueak and all of her advice and support over the last few months. We’re all here for you and hope that Odin starts to improve now he’s on the tramadol. 🤞🏻
 
I am so sorry about poor Odin. I've been following along and both of you have been having a difficult time.

While I haven't had a poorly guinea pig, I have had two babies in the NICU and that is really stressful. I do have some advice on what helped me.
  • Make sure you take care of yourself. Doing simple self care like soaking in a warm bath or shower does wonders.
  • Make sure you open your blinds/curtains to let light in.
  • If you can, get outside and take a walk or sit in your garden (not sure what the rules are since I think you guys are in lockdown).
  • Read a book or magazine out loud to your piggy. That way you are spending time with Odin but not staring at him and worrying more.
  • Take a nap!
I found those things really helped me destress a bit; the stress is still there but it is good to do other things to keep the worry from gnawing at your mind. When my babies were in the hospital it also helped to just get away and stop staring at them hooked up to the machines.

I also like to send a card to those with babies in the hospital to cheer them up. Since I cannot send you a card, please know that I am keeping you and your sweet Odin in my thoughts. :hug:
 
DougalandDiego said:
Sorry to hear you’ve had such a time of it @Marvel_piggie_squad and sorry to hear you feel so anxious 😞 I went through feeling the same when my boys would have a fall out and would worry all the time when out the house. I found that speaking to people on the forum (who are like minded) and posting and asking for advice is what helped me through. I don’t know what I would have done without @alpacasqueak and all of her advice and support over the last few months. We’re all here for you and hope that Odin starts to improve now he’s on the tramadol. 🤞🏻
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Thank you! @alpacasqueak is brilliant isn’t she ❤️
 
RedLoredAmazon said:
I am so sorry about poor Odin. I've been following along and both of you have been having a difficult time.

While I haven't had a poorly guinea pig, I have had two babies in the NICU and that is really stressful. I do have some advice on what helped me.
  • Make sure you take care of yourself. Doing simple self care like soaking in a warm bath or shower does wonders.
  • Make sure you open your blinds/curtains to let light in.
  • If you can, get outside and take a walk or sit in your garden (not sure what the rules are since I think you guys are in lockdown).
  • Read a book or magazine out loud to your piggy. That way you are spending time with Odin but not staring at him and worrying more.
  • Take a nap!
I found those things really helped me destress a bit; the stress is still there but it is good to do other things to keep the worry from gnawing at your mind. When my babies were in the hospital it also helped to just get away and stop staring at them hooked up to the machines.

I also like to send a card to those with babies in the hospital to cheer them up. Since I cannot send you a card, please know that I am keeping you and your sweet Odin in my thoughts. :hug:
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Thank you so much. Sorry to hear of your difficult times ❤️❤️❤️
 
Hello Marvel_piggie_squad I can understand your anxiety and worry. Have you tried mindfulness ? It’s just concentrating on the moment and really can help with worry and anxiety. There is no easy answer cos you’ve been thru so much and obviously it’s still ongoing. But he’s doing so well and that’s down to you and your care ! Take care 🥰
 
Claire W said:
I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling with your anxiety :( I have anxiety too and it’s horrible. May be speak to your doctor and don’t suffer in silence, we’re all here for you and Odin x
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Thank you. Never felt like this before, it’s the constant worrying about him. With him being so amazing over the weekend, but quieter today, I can’t stop worrying!
 
He was doing so great on the Tramadol, but now not as well. I feel like I’m truly out of options 😢😢😢 he’s definitely not eating as much and we are getting the occasional funny chewing again. He’s being fussy with what he eats
 
When they’re well they don’t eat all the time. I think you’re over-analysing things. I’m only saying this because I’ve been there. I nearly made myself ill, years ago. Dealing with poorly piggies, week in, week out, just got to me and I couldn’t switch off! You need to leave him to it and go and do something for you xx
 
furryfriends (TEAS) said:
When they’re well they don’t eat all the time. I think you’re over-analysing things. I’m only saying this because I’ve been there. I nearly made myself ill, years ago. Dealing with poorly piggies, week in, week out, just got to me and I couldn’t switch off! You need to leave him to it and go and do something for you xx
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Thank you. I’ll try. Am I best just monitoring his weight? I’m still syringe feeding. It’s just he used to love particular veggies. But now he’s not touching them xx
 
Marvel_piggie_squad said:
Thank you. I’ll try. Am I best just monitoring his weight? I’m still syringe feeding. It’s just he used to love particular veggies. But now he’s not touching them xx
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Just weigh him once a day, at the same time of day. Maybe top him up with a syringe feed once or twice a day. When they’ve been ill, they often prefer different foods. I think they associate their old favourites, with being poorly. Just give him a selection and let him eat what he fancies.
 
furryfriends (TEAS) said:
Just weigh him once a day, at the same time of day. Maybe top him up with a syringe feed once or twice a day. When they’ve been ill, they often prefer different foods. I think they associate their old favourites, with being poorly. Just give him a selection and let him eat what he fancies.
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Thank you. It’s so hard not to end up watching him every minute of the day xx
 
Marvel_piggie_squad said:
Thank you. It’s so hard not to end up watching him every minute of the day xx
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I did the same and ended up having a total meltdown, screaming I couldn’t do it anymore and I was closing TEAS. I felt like all I was doing was sitting watching piggies and waiting for them to die. That was my life! It was awful! Now I do my best, but also live my life and enjoy lots of other things too!
 
furryfriends (TEAS) said:
I did the same and ended up having a total meltdown, screaming I couldn’t do it anymore and I was closing TEAS. I felt like all I was doing was sitting watching piggies and waiting for them to die. That was my life! It was awful! Now I do my best, but also live my life and enjoy lots of other things too!
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That’s exactly how I feel right now. So glad someone understands! And I’m constantly doubting and questioning myself. Can’t even get to sleep because I’m worrying about him. I feel like I’ve given up my whole life for these piggies. I love them and I’ll do anything for them, but it is consuming everything x
 
A few years ago, I had four guinea pigs needing syringe feeding (two were very poorly, one was well in himself, but couldn't eat very well and one had been very poorly but was now doing much better, with top up syringe feeds needed). It was my very busy time of year, with paid work, so I was working very long hours. I got home late and thought where do I start? I hadn't eaten properly all day and I had four guinea pigs needing feeding. I thought where do I start! Who do I feed first?

The answer may surprise you!

I feed myself first! Basically, if I collapse in a heap, who will look after the poorly piggies? What I am trying to say is, you must be the priority, as if you fall apart, everything else falls apart!
 
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DougalandDiego said:
Sorry to hear you’ve had such a time of it @Marvel_piggie_squad and sorry to hear you feel so anxious 😞 I went through feeling the same when my boys would have a fall out and would worry all the time when out the house. I found that speaking to people on the forum (who are like minded) and posting and asking for advice is what helped me through. I don’t know what I would have done without @alpacasqueak and all of her advice and support over the last few months. We’re all here for you and hope that Odin starts to improve now he’s on the tramadol. 🤞🏻
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Marvel_piggie_squad said:
Thank you! @alpacasqueak is brilliant isn’t she ❤
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Thanks so much guys, you made me cry! Glad I could help a bit even just with my rambling! :)xx

You’re doing an amazing job with Odin @Marvel_piggie_squad and he’s so lucky to have such a brilliant mum! I totally know what you mean, I was an anxious mess with Pedro for months and the forum guys helped me so much to get through it. But definitely do more for you like Debbie says, it’s great he’s gained weight but you dont want to lose it worrying about him! You need to be strong for your gorgeous boys! Big hugs xx
 
:agr: It's time for you now. You have given Odin and your other pigs so much time. You now must take time out for yourself. Even if it is just a quick walk or a soak in the bath. Do deep breathing exercises too. Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth and breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth and breathe in through the nose and breathe out ........ you get the idea.
 
Marvel_piggie_squad said:
Thank you all so much 🥰🥰🥰 I honestly don’t know what I would do without you all! 🤗🤗
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That's what's great about this Forum everybody supports everybody else. We all have experienced what you have been going through. A few months ago I was going through the same with Meg. I really thought she would go to The Rainbow Bridge and one morning I was convinced she had but she was just in a really deep sleep. I started looking for new friends for Christian as I was that convinced Meg wouldn't make it. That's how Patsy came to join my piggy family. Through my determination, syringe feeding day and night, a couple of trips to Northampton and a lot of trips to The Heath to get grass when she couldn't eat hay, Meg has recovered of a fashion. Her face is still paralysed but she is still here. Odin is still here because of your dedication. Long may it continue.
 
Betsy said:
That's what's great about this Forum everybody supports everybody else. We all have experienced what you have been going through. A few months ago I was going through the same with Meg. I really thought she would go to The Rainbow Bridge and one morning I was convinced she had but she was just in a really deep sleep. I started looking for new friends for Christian as I was that convinced Meg wouldn't make it. That's how Patsy came to join my piggy family. Through my determination, syringe feeding day and night, a couple of trips to Northampton and a lot of trips to The Heath to get grass when she couldn't eat hay, Meg has recovered of a fashion. Her face is still paralysed but she is still here. Odin is still here because of your dedication. Long may it continue.
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You and Meg have really been through it too. What an inspiration you both are 💖
 
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