Kellie love, have just read the postings and all about your hard times, I've been lucky in being married for 27 years this July but I cannot say its all be plain sailing, but your hubby sounds very disrespectful and a bully, at least he has given you some space by going to his mums, be strong and think you have adorable kids and wonderful animals to pull you through the coming tough months, I'm always here as your adopted mum if you cannot talk to your mum, my sons also 24 so am probably same age as your mum, I've had a lot of practiceas well, my 20 year old son is married and has a 2 year old daughter and I'm always sorting the pair of them out lol, joking aside if you want to chat please email me anytime I've got age and experience be strong sweetheart,