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Just want to assure you of my support.
Abscesses are nasty things
Abscesses are nasty things
Ahhh thank you so much for your kind words xI'm sorry for your loss, your care gave her many more happy todays than she otherwise would have.
Popcorn high over the rainbow bridge Gertrude and run free with Clementine and Pepper
Thank you xSo sorry for your loss.
You gave her a love filled life.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve
Thank you so muchI just read Gertrude’s story ( I must have missed it last year) amazing
Gertrude was living her best life with you all and your devotion gave her all those wonderful extra times
Take care of yourself as she will leave a big paw print on your heart
Popcorn freely at RB lovely Gertrude and reunited with your sisters
Final update on Gertrude: in August she suddenly become ill and her Back legs stopped working. And stopped eating. Nothing was able to help her this time round and she unfortunately left us. We think maybe infection spread inside that we could not see. A terrible year, 4 girls and we have lost 3, lost clementine (at 2.5yrs old) to a condition that caused her teeth to grow into her jaws, operated but did not make it, Pepper (2.5yrs old) died from cushing's disease, and lost gertrude to this repeated cyst. (3yrs old) So poor daisy is now alone. She was depressed for 2 weeks but now really happy the happiest I have seen her. Suspected to have ovarian cysts but currently in good shape and popcorning. I have very much learned my lesson to not buy piggies from Pets at home and to adopt in the future! Terrible breeding. Not helped by having no vets in the county of linconshire that know anything about guinea pigs. Hope this thread helps others in the future xx
Thank you for all the information, I did read several threads when trying to decide if daisy needed a new friend. I waited to see how she got on and she was always a grumbly bully (prob not helped by her ovarian cysts) gertrude died in August and it's taken me some time to be able to write she had gone so daisy has been without a friend for nearly 3 months now and she is really her best self, she seems to have realised there is no more having to share, and she is so much more chatty, friendly, excited than ever. However I am in a privileged situation that I am with her all day and night I work at home in the same room as her and she is oddly rather comfy with our very soft old labrador. They often sleep near each other (separated of course by her protected wall) she doesn't even go near her soft toy pig that has gertrudes scent on anymore. To be honest I think she's pleased when I go off to bed so she gets some peace! Lol. If anything changed in her behaviour i would def seek a rescue to find a friend. Thank you again xBIG HUGS
Thank you for your update. I am so very sorry about yet another loss. It's definitely not your fault that you have ended up with such a concentration of rather rare illnesses! Try to take consolation that you have given your girls a happy and good life. Guinea pigs measure their life in happy todays; they do not have a concept for an average life span, so you haven't failed them in any way.
1 What can I do immediately after a guinea pig has died?
- Saying goodbye
- What can I do for my grieving piggy?
- Emergency: acute pining (not eating/drinking) or sudden illness
2 New companionship and human grieving
- When can I start looking for a new mate?
- "Replacing" a guinea pig: the conflict between human and cavy needs
- How do I best go about finding a new mate? (Possible options listed for bereaved sows and boars)...
- Wiebke
- Replies: 2
- Forum: End of Life and Bereavement Support Corner
1 The grieving process
- Loss and the start of the grieving process
- Grieving with a terminally ill guinea pig
- Going through the grieving process
2 Ways of coping
- Expressing and processing your feelings
- Regaining your guinea pig
- Burial and marking the passing
- Dealing with special days
3 How do I tell my children?
- Finding local support lines and charities...
- Wiebke
- Replies: 3
- Forum: End of Life and Bereavement Support Corner
We are here for you in our brand-new dedicated End of Life and Bereavement Corner for your own grieving since it takes time to digest multiple losses and it can really rock you to the core as well as helping with your bereaved girl and any concerns in this direction.
1 What can I do immediately after a guinea pig has died?
- Saying goodbye
- What can I do for my grieving piggy?
- Emergency: acute pining (not eating/drinking) or sudden illness
2 New companionship and human grieving
- When can I start looking for a new mate?
- "Replacing" a guinea pig: the conflict between human and cavy needs
- How do I best go about finding a new mate? (Possible options listed for bereaved sows and boars)...
- Wiebke
- Replies: 2
- Forum: End of Life and Bereavement Support Corner
Introduction
1 When is a 'single' really a single?
- Bought singles
- Fallen-out and aggressive piggies
- Bereaved guinea pigs
- No interest in other guinea pigs
- Disabled and special needs guinea pigs
2 Companionship options (with pros and cons)
- Dating
- De-sexing (neutering or spaying)
- Living alongside
- Buying a baby companion
3 Caring for single guinea...
- Wiebke
- Replies: 5
- Forum: Behaviour, Bonds and Species Understanding
Thank you xWishing you and sweet Daisy and your lovely lab all the best