Thank you. I really appreciate the information. I have never faced this before and I honestly feel in denial a little bit. She's running around like a rocket. She's in full Zoomies mode. Earlier she grabbed a whole melon wedge and scurried away with it holding her head up high. She doesn't seem even remotely ill and I'm having genuine trouble processing all this. My other girl seems different though. Upset even. If I hadn't seen Bumble pass a slight bit of red when going to the toilet the other day I would actually assume the poorly pig was my other baby.
Denial is a very normal initial reaction to the shock, especially when there are not yet any noticeable symptoms.
I find that the best way to deal with the situation for me is to turn the clock back to zero and to see every extra day as a special boon for any piggy that has either survived a life-threatening situation or has been diagnosed with a terminal condition.
Concentrate on enrichment and making every day special so you are left with the inevitable pain of the loss, but no feelings of guilt or sorrow about wasted time. You can pack a lifetime's worth of love into a single meaningful gesture or word. Living the remaining time consciously but always with your girl's welfare topmost in mind means that you can turn a relatively short time in to a treasure trove of very precious memories that feels much larger than a huge cave of a life that kind of has just passed you by and that you haven't created any treasures to store in. By all means, lavish time and special experiences on her, take plenty of pictures and savour those moments.
Enrichment Ideas for Guinea Pigs
Unlike a sudden death where you have the massive shock and the pain from the loss plus all those unanswered questions happening in big difficult to digest lump, you have the grace to work through several aspects of the grieving process gradually over the coming weeks if you love this time consciously. Your soul can only ever digest so much grieving at any given point, but if you can so more consciously, it will have already processed quite a bit by the time you have to say goodbye.
I have done so with my four old ladies over the last year; they passed within 3 months of each other all around their 8th birthday. It was a tough time but in many ways, the death of the last of them and the formal tributes in the Rainbow Bridge section (plus an article in Guinea Pig Magazine as it has meant the end of an era in which a lot has happened for me) have meant that I am now open again for my current piggies and able to appreciate a new chapter and a complete change of generations and so many faces arriving in the last 3 years to take the place of the 20 piggies I have lost during that period - and sadly not all of them to old age.
Another aspect that you may want to think over in the coming days is new companionship.
You do not always have to necessarily wait until a piggy has gone and you are emotionally very torn; you can create a short-term trio as long as the new arrival is not very dominant and not necessarily able to challenge a fading piggy or already classed well above for the need to challenge their status in the hierarchy. This means that the new arrival won't feel quite as much as a replacement because you have already created your own bond and relationship.
If you can, ask around at any rescues you can get to and speak to them whether they have a suitable companion available or in the pipeline, whether that is a neutered boar, a gentle older sow with group background or a baby girl etc.
Ideally you rescue date your piggies while your girl is still well in herself.
Cavy Corner sanctuary and rescue in Doncaster (especially with their experience and kindness), new and still relatively small rescue Dotty Guinea Pig Rescue in Matlock or in a pinch Neville's Nest Guinea Pig Rescue in Leicester are the good standard rescues in your wider area that I can recommend in view of your somewhat special situation.
The presence of an already bonded new mate can help the surviving piggy cope massively better with their loss. That was the reason I adopted baby Carys in September 2018 after Tesni had died and her sister Ffwlbri was coming up towards 8 years of age but their 'toy boy' husbar Gethin was only just coming up to 3 years at the time. (In fact, Ffwlbri lived nearly a year longer because baby Carys gave her a renewed zest for life).
I have repeated this when my 5 year old Pioden was down to his last 8 year old wife but because of his huge size wasn't welcome with any of my admittedly difficult sow pairs. Little Dryw came here in August not long after Tegan's death; cheered up old and very frail Hedydd without
being able to challenge her and has given Pioden a new aim in life.
It has also meant that I didn't have to worry about the companions and could fully concentrate on my own grieving in the weeks immediately following the last loss. It hasn't been any less painful but I have come out of it sooner than I would have otherwise.
PS: Could you please add your county in addition village to your location details. It makes it easier for any of us who lives in another part of the UK and is not familiar with your area to help you nevertheless.