I'm struggling.

piggieminder said:
I'm glad you feel a little better today. These things take time but I do hope that soon you will be able to look back on your boy with a smile, remembering happy times and the great life he had.
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I'm sure I will do, there's plenry if happy times to reflect on. When I'm feeling low I just need to remind myself he wouldn't have lived to 16 if he wasn't well loved and cared for ❤️
 
Spaghetti & Noodles said:
Thank you for your kind words, he is only 10 so not old, I've suspected for a few weeks he is unwell but couldn't give any specific symptoms, he just seemed off, he went for routine vaccinations and they did a health check and didn't find pain on physical exam, listened to his heart and chest, gut etc all sounded ok, so we went ahead and booked in for a dental as that really needed doing but when they went to put the tube in for the anaesthetic they found his lymph nodes were enlarged so took a sample and now I'm just waiting to hear. Now I know they are up I can feel them and a few other symptoms now fit, best case scenario they are up and it was linked to his teeth some sort of infection, worst case is lymphoma. Unfortunately my back ground (before children) was veterinary nursing, knowledge isn't always a good thing 🙁
Apologies for derailing your thread.
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So sorry 😞 I hope it’s his teeth causing his lymph nodes to swell, 🤞
 
I am so sorry you are feeling so sad :hug: It sounded like you made the best possible decision so he didn’t suffer, but it’s so hard on you, take care and treasure your memories x
 
weepweeps said:
Yes I remember feeling so happy when my Eddie was finally back home. Take care ❤️
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I'm counting down the days. They said 7 to 10 working days. That's too long 😅 hopefully this time next week he will be home, I've cut a strip of his bed case off so he can lay on that❤️
 
Bill & Ted said:
I am so sorry you are feeling so sad :hug: It sounded like you made the best possible decision so he didn’t suffer, but it’s so hard on you, take care and treasure your memories x
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Deep down I know I made the right decision, he would have only gotten worse and I couldn't see him go through that just because I wasn't ready to say goodbye. My silly brain likes to torment me though with what ifs and buts unfortunately.

Everything seems clearer and calmer today so that's a good sign. Thank You ❤️
 
So sorry for your loss. Sometimes the last act of kindness for our beloved pets is the hardest one for us to make. He knew he was loved and had 15 years of love that he might not have got if it wasn't for your family. Hope you are ok.
 
Julie M said:
So sorry for your loss. Sometimes the last act of kindness for our beloved pets is the hardest one for us to make. He knew he was loved and had 15 years of love that he might not have got if it wasn't for your family. Hope you are ok.
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You're right, it's the final act of kindness.

I'm doing OK today, thanks you. I've had a tough few days but things seem calmer today ❤️
 
I really sympathise with this and I’m so sorry. Everyone agreed it was my piggies time last week when we let her go. The vet, my husband, the rescue we got her from, every friend and family member… but I can’t help but wonder ‘what if it was just a bad few days?’
I think we need to be less harsh on ourselves. Deep down, we know we would never have done this if there was another option. It was your last act of love and kindness and your pup knew you were there ❤️
 
weepweeps said:
Any news @Spaghetti & Noodles ?
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Good evening all,
Yes I have spoken to the vet today and it wasn't the news we were hoping for, he does have lymphoma so we now have to consider where we go from here.......... My husband and I have discussed and we will find the right time to discuss with the children but we do feel palliative care is the right course of action. 😔
Thank you for thinking of us and asking it means a lot that people I don't really know in person can still care, I am grateful 🥲
 
Spaghetti & Noodles said:
Good evening all,
Yes I have spoken to the vet today and it wasn't the news we were hoping for, he does have lymphoma so we now have to consider where we go from here.......... My husband and I have discussed and we will find the right time to discuss with the children but we do feel palliative care is the right course of action. 😔
Thank you for thinking of us and asking it means a lot that people I don't really know in person can still care, I am grateful 🥲
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I’m so very sorry. Sending you all massive hugs.
 
Spaghetti & Noodles said:
Good evening all,
Yes I have spoken to the vet today and it wasn't the news we were hoping for, he does have lymphoma so we now have to consider where we go from here.......... My husband and I have discussed and we will find the right time to discuss with the children but we do feel palliative care is the right course of action. 😔
Thank you for thinking of us and asking it means a lot that people I don't really know in person can still care, I am grateful 🥲
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I'm so sorry it wasn't the news you were hoping for 💔

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. However you choose to move forward from here I'm sure it'll be out of love for your boy. Take care of yourself. X
 
So sorry I missed this thread.
Feeling guilty is part of grieving - it’s normal.
Be gentle and patient with yourself.
Holding you in my heart ♥️
 
Awww. Thank you for sharing. He was a beauty. I’m glad you can smile at his pictures.
 
From someone who works in veterinary medicine choosing to allow your beloved pet to go peacefully, with dignity and not allowing them to suffer anymore truly is a special gift, at times I wish was available to people. The word euthanasia means good death I believe. I’ve worked here for 5 years and I completely understand and appreciate it’s the worst and toughest decision to have to make but after seeing the things I have in veterinary over the years I truly believe you and your pet will know when it’s time. It’s normal to feel guilty but I think in time you will see it was the kindest thing to do. Sending lots of love to anyone needing it at this time ❤️
 
As someone once said to me, better a day too soon than a day too late.

Its a brave selfless decision, well done

He looks a great character and I love that plaque for the garden

Run free Panto x
 
Guinea Fan said:
As someone once said to me, better a day too soon than a day too late.

Its a brave selfless decision, well done

He looks a great character and I love that plaque for the garden

Run free Panto x
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Thank You. He was a fantastic dog. We miss him but we have plenty of memories ❤️
 
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