OMG HM! :o :o :o :o
What a total p*ick! 666) 666)
Awwwwwwwww ((((megahugs)))))
Something like that happened with my ex, although no-where near as heartbreaking! We sold the house, and for months and months were looking for propeties, I helped him renovate, did everything I could, then as soon as the money was in his hand, he decided he wanted to go backpacking around america, and f'd off, not even a call for nearly year!!
I was only young, and sooo naive, looking back he took total advantage of me, him being a lot older, but he just left and for literally months and months cried myself to sleep worrying about what had happened...and from talking to his ex and friends, finding out new stuff hed lied about every day!
When me and andy had been living together about a year, the ex got back in touch, we met up, he was as smooth as ever, and I very very nearly left andy for him! Until I went back to visit my family and spoke to my nan about it, and she refreshed my mind of all the things he had lied to me about, all the things he did, then I had a reality check....
Andy doesnt know I considered leaving him, and I hope he never ever will
These days I cant hear the northern irish accent without wanting to retch ;D ;D