So funny, I had the discussion of "can I?" about getting the piggies for ages with my OH, and this went on for a wee while until it occurred to me that I am a grown woman, able to decide for myself, and that if there is no hazard to him and the kids why not - he then laughed and said it was time I realised that I can, and should make my own decisions, and to stop looking for his approval all the time - and he then said why don't you buy the shed then and get started. ha ha - he's such a messer!
That is so AWESOME! If my husband had it his way we would have NO animals. When we were dating I was going to school to be a vet tech/nurse. I had three dogs, two rats and a hedgehog BY MYSELF! He knew I use to have and show horses and even had a pet goat for Pete's sake. He knew what he was getting into lol lol.
I basically take care of the whole house including the yard, animals, AAAANNNNDD the kids. He and my son actually wanted to get a snake. He knew how I felt about them and didn't want one, but I said fine, but don't ask me to touch it or feed it. So they got a ball python. I learned about them so if anything happened I would know what to do. Well I'm glad I DID! One day I was downstairs in the kitchen and my son was probably 8/9 at the time, calls down very calmly and says mom I have a problem. The snake had bit onto his arm! I'm freaking out he is not. He comes down I ran water over the snakes head so he would
Let go as i held onto the tail end. OMG was it strong. It was trying to get behind the fridge as I was holding on for dear life. THANK GOD the trash can was empty and in arms reach or I would have probably been bitten myself. I finally got it off the counter and put it in the trash can took it upstairs and dumped it back in the tank.
So I say BOOO HOOO! it actually feels quite liberating to just go ahead and make a decision for myself.
When and if he actually wants to sit down and have a conversation and hear the kids and my side on why we want an animal, FINE, then we will discuss it but his answer is always immediately NO! So I don't ask anymore
This started last year when I asked him about fostering Mama the pregnant beagle ( who is now ours) He said "NO, BUT I know you'll do whatever the hell you want anyway" so I did lol lol.
Then when she got here he says " I thought I had said NO" and I said "yeah but you said I would do what I wanted anyway, so I did what I wanted" he was mad for a spell but got over it. Bet he won't say that again hahahahahahaha.
Anyway I'm just sick of it! Why does what HE Say have to be the final answer?!? IT DOESNT! (About me here) sorry for ranting lol lol. This is a touchy subject for me I guess.
I mean honestly what is he gonna do if you move them into the house? To a room he doesn't frequent? A place out of the way? Not in the dinning room like mine are lol.
What's the worst thing that will happen? My guess is he will be crabby and pout for a while and then get over it and actually start to like the pigs even more. I found a video on my husbands phone (that he took himself hahahaha.) Petting our cat Georgie and talking a little baby talk to him. I was like WHAT IS THIS?!? Mr. Animal hater?!? It was sooooo funny.
Sorry for rambling on.
You need to make a decision about what is best for the little lives in your care! You would have no problem telling him where to go if he said your kids had to live in the dark garage( with no window) all winter would you? This is NO different in my opinion.
Okay ((((hugs))))) lol! WOW I feel like I just went to therapy and unloaded hahahaha.
SO SORRY for ranting away, but it felt good.
Angela