A place to rant about things that wind you up ( keep it clean lol)

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Claire W said:
Thank you. I didn't have a seizure but my anxiety got the better of me as I didn't know anyone there so we still ended up coming home early :(
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It's very difficult being at a party when you don't know anyone else there. I probably won't go to the village Jubilee street party tomorrow as my OH is away and I hardly know anyone in the village - trying to make conversation with strangers is soo awkward...
 
Doing a favour and looking after my friend's kids for a night. We're at their house and they've been a dream all day. The neighbours on the other hand...screaming kids, thundering all around the house, loud music, obnoxious chatter in the garden...it's gone 11pm already and they sound like they're getting worse rather than running out of steam.

My kids are thankfully asleep as far as I know. But doesn't look like I'll be getting much rest tonight with that racket going on! 😡
 
Homestead Mom said:
I have a friend that shows up unexpectedly, and stays as long as she wants without warning. She said a week last time, and it was two! I have a bad back, and can’t just go out, and walk all day. At the end of her stay, I was crying in the shower.
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How rude of her. Next time she turns up give her a leaving date. I also have a bad back and it’s so draining being in pain all the time. I’ve just found out you can get fatigue with chronic pain.
 
Qualcast&Flymo said:
It's very difficult being at a party when you don't know anyone else there. I probably won't go to the village Jubilee street party tomorrow as my OH is away and I hardly know anyone in the village - trying to make conversation with strangers is soo awkward...
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Yeah I’d hate that too. I’m not very social because of anxiety. You’ll probably find it won’t be as bad as you think. It’s the thinking about something I find stressful. Go along for 30 mins. If you still don’t feel comfortable you can leave. Talk to the local vicar. They are used to talking to strangers. Or someone with a dog. That breaks the ice too.
 
weepweeps said:
Excellent that you went Claire and didn’t have a seizure.
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Thank you. Chris text to apologise on my behalf and apparently the host ended up in bed not long after we left after having too much to drink so I don't feel quite so bad now
 
Homestead Mom said:
I have a friend that shows up unexpectedly, and stays as long as she wants without warning. She said a week last time, and it was two! I have a bad back, and can’t just go out, and walk all day. At the end of her stay, I was crying in the shower.
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That is so rude.
Next time she turns up without asking tell her it's not convenient for her to stay long as you have someone else coming in a few days.
 
I cut my finger at some point today and I don't even know which point that is. Was in the middle of moving some of the pigs furniture and "Why is my finger wet?" "No wait not wet why is it covered in blood" "Oh wait where's it even bleeding from?!"
 
I’m on holiday in the Lake District. We’ve taken Chester our Border Terrier. Who is only about 5.5 months old. It’s his very first holiday and he’s behaving like an angel. We were out walking with him when another dog walker said to us that they had put their dog back on its lead because their dog doesn’t like Borders! They said to us that lots of dogs don’t like Borders! Really. Rude.

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weepweeps said:
I’m on holiday in the Lake District. We’ve taken Chester our Border Terrier. Who is only about 5.5 months old. It’s his very first holiday and he’s behaving like an angel. We were out walking with him when another dog walker said to us that they had put their dog back on its lead because their dog doesn’t like Borders! They said to us that lots of dogs don’t like Borders! Really. Rude.

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Some people are so rude! Just ignore them, Chester is gorgeous 😍 Enjoy your holiday
 
Ready to cry honestly. At the start of my school year with this new teacher I got put with, they immediately lost my details and lost me about 6 weeks of school time. Following that my attendance hasn’t been perfect due to health issues, but they already knew it wasn’t going to be because they’ve had me for a while. I should’ve probably led this post with the fact that it’s a recovery college, for people who struggle with all sorts of things and obviously won’t be there all the time.. the last 3-4 months I’ve had this tutor over Microsoft teams and from the start she’s never really taken to me. During classes she has shrugged me off and literally forgot that I was there multiple times. There was a time a few months ago she told me I wasn’t even registered with her, and someone had to fix it because I’d magically disappeared off of her roster. Today I went in with my mock exam papers and everyone was being registered for their final exams, apart from me of course. I was told that I’m not registered due to having some time off (I haven’t at all since I was re registered) and that I need permission to take the exam, it’ll apparently be judged on the paper everybody who’s registered for the exam struggles with… except they get to take it? Lol. Apparently I’ll be hearing from her manager whether I get to take it or not, already know the answer… I feel like I’ve been screwed out of a lot literally because she’s decided she doesn’t like me.
 
Royal Mail or should I say Royal No Mail. 2 letters have arrived this morning (first time we've had any this week), both urgent and posted at least 10 days ago. One threatening legal action because we haven't reacted to the letter they sent us last month (never received). They are still using the COVID excuse, yet another organisation in this Country not fit for purpose. The poor postmen who worked so hard through all the lockdowns are getting moaned at daily because of the incompetence of their management when it's not their fault.
 
@Rivervixen I had a few similar experiences due to a lot of moving, moving alone at 17 (a couple finally had to take custody of me for a month until I turned 18. The judge was laughing), and incompetence in the attendance office. I’m happy to be able to laugh about it now, but it certainly wasn’t funny back then. I hope you can get through this without anymore issues. :hug:
 
Homestead Mom said:
@Rivervixen I had a few similar experiences due to a lot of moving, moving alone at 17 (a couple finally had to take custody of me for a month until I turned 18. The judge was laughing), and incompetence in the attendance office. I’m happy to be able to laugh about it now, but it certainly wasn’t funny back then. I hope you can get through this without anymore issues. :hug:
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Thank you! 🤗🤗
 
I was actually offered an appointment at Burnley hospital to see a doctor. I thought I had finally found somewhere who had accepted me for neuropsychology until I received the following letter, I thought it was too good to be true :( Apparently they don’t accept people with non epileptic attack disorder, only those with physical neurological conditions such as epilepsy and MS. I’m so fed up :(

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Claire W said:
I was actually offered an appointment at Burnley hospital to see a doctor. I thought I had finally found somewhere who had accepted me for neuropsychology until I received the following letter, I thought it was too good to be true :( Apparently they don’t accept people with non epileptic attack disorder, only those with physical neurological conditions such as epilepsy and MS. I’m so fed up :(

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So sorry Claire, you seem to be going around in circles. It’s no way to treat people is it ☹️
 
weepweeps said:
I’m on holiday in the Lake District. We’ve taken Chester our Border Terrier. Who is only about 5.5 months old. It’s his very first holiday and he’s behaving like an angel. We were out walking with him when another dog walker said to us that they had put their dog back on its lead because their dog doesn’t like Borders! They said to us that lots of dogs don’t like Borders! Really. Rude.

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How could anybody/dog not like him, he is gorgeous 💙
 
Bill & Ted said:
So sorry Claire, you seem to be going around in circles. It’s no way to treat people is it ☹️
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Thank you. I’m already for giving up. It’s been almost a year since I was diagnosed with NEAD and still nobody has accepted me for treatment :(
 
Bill & Ted said:
Hang in there, see what your doctor can do, I’m sure there’s someone out there who can help you x
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Thank you. It’s just the last time I spoke to my doctor, he said there was one last place we could try which was the one that’s just rejected me again. I feel so deflated and fed up with all the chasing up and rejections. The waiting list for neuropsychology is huge but I’d just feel better if I was on a waiting list x
 
Claire W said:
Thank you. It’s just the last time I spoke to my doctor, he said there was one last place we could try which was the one that’s just rejected me again. I feel so deflated and fed up with all the chasing up and rejections. The waiting list for neuropsychology is huge but I’d just feel better if I was on a waiting list x
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