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Ok.

I tend to be "one of the lads" when I am with men, even the ones I fancy. I don't think this is very successful.
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What do you all think? I would be interested to know. :)
 
I've always had more male friends then female. At my training there are 5 girls 10 guys. I'm so much more comfortable around guys and feel closer to them then the females already.
Being one of the lads is fine.
 
Yes, my friends are mostly men. But what I meant is that if you like a guy, I don't think it is successful ::)
 
At school and college I always had more male friends than female. The other way round these days.

I think some guys prefer the more 'girly' type, cos then they haven't got anything to be afraid of? LOL You know what I mean!

Keep to the (heaven forbid) pink! ;)
 
Tried that last time (including the enormous flower - remember it?)

Just not sure how to proceed with this one ::)
 
I think it's good. If you act naturally and treat guys like people instead of as a different species (even though they are - LOL!) then they can feel relaxed around you and get to know you as a friend before asking you out.
I guess what you are saying is that some guys are more likely to be attracted by the 'girly' look, and ask out a girl they like the look of but don't really know -? So that kind of girl might get asked out on more dates but then dumped when it turns out that they have nothing in common.

Disclaimer - it is a veeeeeeeeeery long time since I was in the dating market ;D ;D ;D
 
I'm curious - are you one of the lads in dress sense or personality?
 
Agree with Kelly, he knows you're there but hasn't realised that your a woman yet. Men do need a shove everynow and then.
Get dressed up low cut top hugging your bod and tight jeans and wiggle that bum ;)
 
Billies Mum said:
I'm curious - are you one of the lads in dress sense or personality?
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I always wear jeans, but make it a more girly look with lots of ear-rings, flowers etc. I wear a lot of pink ;D and always do my face. It's more a personality thing.
 
I think guys aprreciate a girl who can laugh at their crappy jokes etc but still seem feminine as well, it all depends on the type of guy you have in mind some like tarts with hugh boobs etc but who are not too bright around them others like inteligence and the more down to earth girl, thats the one you should be like but then again been with the same hunky hubby for 28 years but to be honest all 3 of my eldest boys of 25 21 and 17 all have down to earth girfriends one of them is quite large but bubbly one is skinny but reserved and quite ( thats not going too good despite 8 years together) and the other one is not skinny but not fat if you know what I mean and is quite down to earth, so theres your proof, no glamour pusses there , try to be yourself men like natural good luck
 
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