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Nicquita

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and I'm in pieces. That pretty much covers it, really. Sorry to waste a post there.
 
Big hugs hun. It's going to take a while to adjust. Have you got a date planned to go and see him at Uni? x
 
i don't think he will. i think he's more to me than i am to him. i can't even tell if that's my opinion, or just terrified paranoia. at the minute it just hurts a lot.
 
Nicquita said:
i don't think he will. i think he's more to me than i am to him. i can't even tell if that's my opinion, or just terrified paranoia. at the minute it just hurts a lot.
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Oh you poor thing, you are hurting arent you? Didnt you talk about it, I'm sure he feels the same, you should talk to him.
 
i am hurting. a lot. and it's hard to talk to him about anything when he's too busy
 
awww bless you, thats really good that you give him time when he is busy, but i think you need to talk to him hon, it may help and if you mean anything to each other, it could save what you have.

How is everything else going at home/work/college?
 
work is good, college is good, home is okay sometimes. but almost everything i do is motivated by Chris in the first place. honestly, before i met him i didn't do 'being happy' very much :(
 
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work is good, college is good, home is okay sometimes. but almost everything i do is motivated by Chris in the first place. honestly, before i met him i didn't do 'being happy' very much :(
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But, you have met him now and hes gone off to uni for a bit, not forever, so carry on with what you have started as in being happy, and have some fun, personally i dont think its healthy to have only one special person in your life when you are young, you need lots and lots of special people, and just save yourself for 'the' special one for when you do see him.
 
I just wanted to send you hug and tell you that were all here for you if you want to talk hun:)
 
I promise you, all will be ok!
*huge hugs*
My boyfriend and I went through this for 3 years when he was at uni, and now I am at uni and we face another 3 years of it.
I'm not gonna lie....it is one of the hardest things I have EVER had to do. We are 160 miles apart, and it really does hurt, but after a while you do get used to it, and it makes your time together SO much more special. When you get to be back in their arms again after some time apart, words cannot explain how amazing that feeling is!
And, being apart just proves that you have an incredible relationship. If you can get through this, you can get through anything!
Write eachother letters or send little gifts in the post - it's amazing how much that helps.
I'm always here if you want a chat. If you want my MSN or Facebook just let me know :) Like I said, I've been through and am still going thorugh it, and I will try and help.
Chin up, keep smiling, and think about how it'll feel to see him again!
xxxxxx
 
Glynis said:
HUGGLES sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Keep positive please :)
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thanks :) i'm trying. it's so hard when he's so busy though. and it feels as though now he's going to have this whole new life that i'm just not a part of. sometimes it feels okay, and i can be positive, but then it all just crashes and burns and i feel amazingly down :(
 
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