Freela
Senior Guinea Pig
So has anyone here run into vets who do not let owners be present in the room for euthanasia procedures? This has been preying on my mind for the past month, since we had an emergent illness with one of my daughter's hamsters and, after she got dramatically worse despite treatment, we elected to have her put to sleep and the vet would not let us be there during the procedure. I'll try to make a long story short- I have a regular vet I have used for years, they are about 45 minutes away by car. They used to have weekend hours, but they stopped due to COVID. When Bean (hamster) got sick on a Friday, I tried to book her with the usual vet and they couldn't fit us in that late (they close at 5 and we didn't see that she was unwell until about 3.) They booked her for Monday, but by Saturday morning it was apparently that she was not going to make it until Monday. So after a lot of phoning I found a vet about 10 minutes from me that saw exotics/small animals and had weekend hours. We got Bean in as an emergency on Sunday morning and I was really happy with the vet and front desk staff, etc. I was even considering moving to that clinic permanently because it was so close and the hours were so much better and my initial experience was really good. So after about five days of us treating her, poor Bean took a sudden and really dramatic turn for the worse and it was apparent that she was suffering and not going to survive, and daughter and I decided we would prefer to help her pass away more peacefully, so we called the new vet who had seen her and they were able to fit us right in. However, when we got there, we were told that euthanasia was an 'unaccompanied procedure' and we couldn't be in the room. I pushed back and said we preferred to be there and it was a firm no. I said I had been present for the euthanasia of pets before and it was a no. So because we didn't have any other options other than letting poor Bean suffer longer and die slower, we agreed to let her be euthanized without us because we really didn't see another option. They gave us her little footprints in ink, they let us take her home to bury (borderline legal in our area but with a hamster they were willing to let it go.) But it bothers me a lot that we weren't there and I feel bad about. It made me realize that I don't even know my regular vet's practice about euthanasia and having owners there. Is this something I have to ask up front with every vet? Is it common to not let owners be in the room? I feel like I am always going to feel terrible about this even though it wasn't by choice... if it was one of my pigs it would be even harder. Needless to say I am not going to switch to this vet, though I would use them again for an emergency that wasn't euthanasia. But is this common practice? Is this a question you need to ask vets before you book appointments? Because Leela's on the older side and some days I worry that something will happen and maybe I won't get to be with her the whole time, even at my usual vet. And I'm scared that if I call the vet just to ask they might say no, it's not allowed there either, and then I'll be out of vets and they aren't easy to find!
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