This one hurts a lot... goodbye Tomie...

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I really never imagined I would be writing this this week, but we sadly and very suddenly lost Tomie on Halloween morning. She was 3.5 years old. She had an underlying thyroid condition that we were treating and were thankful that she was finally starting to gain some weight... on Saturday night I noticed her breathing was labored and got her to the vet first thing Sunday morning. She started on antibiotics and syringe feeding because her appetite was low, but within 24 hours her breathing had stabilized and I really thought we were through the worst. On Thursday morning, my husband saw her around 6 a.m. and she seemed fine... one of my kids gave them hay shortly thereafter and again, she seemed fine. A couple hours later I found her collapsed and very weak... she passed away soon afterwards. It was so abrupt and unexpected and I'm still in shock. All I can think is that her health must have been more precarious than we knew based on her underlying endocrine issues and even though she looked much better, the acute illness was just too much for her heart or lungs or body generally to recover from.

There's so much I can say about Tomie... she was always high strung, she liked nibbling people (even though we didn't always like being nibbled.) She learned to open the cage door and would just let herself and Misa out so we had to start pinning the door closed to keep her contained! She loved snacks... she always attacked the water bottle voraciously... she loved being outside eating the grass. She had some abyssinian or crested pig blood and had a single little crest that was off-center on her head, over above one eye. We always joked that she looked to the side on the guinea pig conveyer belt when she was being made and ended up with the crest in the wrong place as a result. She was always a lot meeker than her companions- Leela was often quite bossy, although Tomie always stuck to her like glue, and Misa was boisterous and would sometimes run right over her. But she always loved cuddling up next to her companions and sitting with the people. She had ears that half flopped and half stuck up and looked like a little hippo with her broad black nose. She had brown feet on one side and black feet on one side and it looked funny seeing her mismatched feet when she would run. She always wanted the food that other pigs were eating, even when she had the exact same thing. She was one of my daughter's favorites and I know my daughter will miss her badly. We all will. I'm so sorry she didn't get to grow old... it's been a long time since we had a piggie who died young. But I know that she piggies don't understand that they are meant to live a certain number of years. They just want happy days. And she had a lot of happy days. We got her as a tiny baby, she was loved every day of her life, and we will always remember her. RIP baby hippo... I hope you're eating clover with Leela right now, I know she will be so happy to see you at Rainbow Bridge. We miss you and love you always, sweetheart. Popcorn free and no more meds or vet visits for you. Rest easy and go with our love.
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I'm so very sorry you lost Tomie. It's so heart breaking when they go. You do all you can for them to keep them with you but sometimes the call of The Rainbow Bridge is just too strong and they have to go. She is with Leela now and is eating grass with her friend once more. Sleep well little Tomie.
 
I’m so sorry that you have unexpectedly lost your lovely Tomie. It’s heartbreaking when you don’t have as long with them as you had hoped. She lived her best life with you and died at home surrounded by love. Be gentle with yourself as you adjust to life without her. Sleep tight beautiful Tomie 🌈
 
I am so sorry, sending hugs to you and your family at such a sad time. It hurts so much when the leave us.
Sleep tight Tomie.
 
So very sorry that you have lost Tomie.
She had a wonderful life with you and she will always have a place in your heart.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve.
Hugs 🤗
 
I am so sorry to read your sad news, the Rainbow Bridge has been busy recently. I understand your heartbreak and hope that when the raw grief subsides you can think about all the times she made you smile. She would have known how much you love her.
Popcorn free Tomie 🌈
 
So sorry to hear this, and what a beautiful tribute to a piggy who was clearly full of personality. It sounds like you gave her all she could have wished for and more. Take good care of yourself as you grieve your lovely piggy and of course we’ll all thinking of your daughter too. It’s never easy but I hope in time the happy memories will help.
 
I really never imagined I would be writing this this week, but we sadly and very suddenly lost Tomie on Halloween morning. She was 3.5 years old. She had an underlying thyroid condition that we were treating and were thankful that she was finally starting to gain some weight... on Saturday night I noticed her breathing was labored and got her to the vet first thing Sunday morning. She started on antibiotics and syringe feeding because her appetite was low, but within 24 hours her breathing had stabilized and I really thought we were through the worst. On Thursday morning, my husband saw her around 6 a.m. and she seemed fine... one of my kids gave them hay shortly thereafter and again, she seemed fine. A couple hours later I found her collapsed and very weak... she passed away soon afterwards. It was so abrupt and unexpected and I'm still in shock. All I can think is that her health must have been more precarious than we knew based on her underlying endocrine issues and even though she looked much better, the acute illness was just too much for her heart or lungs or body generally to recover from.

There's so much I can say about Tomie... she was always high strung, she liked nibbling people (even though we didn't always like being nibbled.) She learned to open the cage door and would just let herself and Misa out so we had to start pinning the door closed to keep her contained! She loved snacks... she always attacked the water bottle voraciously... she loved being outside eating the grass. She had some abyssinian or crested pig blood and had a single little crest that was off-center on her head, over above one eye. We always joked that she looked to the side on the guinea pig conveyer belt when she was being made and ended up with the crest in the wrong place as a result. She was always a lot meeker than her companions- Leela was often quite bossy, although Tomie always stuck to her like glue, and Misa was boisterous and would sometimes run right over her. But she always loved cuddling up next to her companions and sitting with the people. She had ears that half flopped and half stuck up and looked like a little hippo with her broad black nose. She had brown feet on one side and black feet on one side and it looked funny seeing her mismatched feet when she would run. She always wanted the food that other pigs were eating, even when she had the exact same thing. She was one of my daughter's favorites and I know my daughter will miss her badly. We all will. I'm so sorry she didn't get to grow old... it's been a long time since we had a piggie who died young. But I know that she piggies don't understand that they are meant to live a certain number of years. They just want happy days. And she had a lot of happy days. We got her as a tiny baby, she was loved every day of her life, and we will always remember her. RIP baby hippo... I hope you're eating clover with Leela right now, I know she will be so happy to see you at Rainbow Bridge. We miss you and love you always, sweetheart. Popcorn free and no more meds or vet visits for you. Rest easy and go with our love.
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BIG HUGS

The sudden losses that you cannot brace for are always so hard to take... They leave you shaken and questioning yourself whether there was anything you have missed or done wrong - which of course you haven't. It can and does happen just like that. I lost my Maelona under similar circumstances without warning at the start of August and it still bugs me. :(

But you have clearly given Tomie a very loving home and the happiest of piggy lives where her personality could flourish and her need for companionship was fulfilled. Your heart-felt tribute is testimony of just how much she has been cherished and loved.

Please be kind with yourself as you grieve and try not yo beat yourself up.
 
I am so sorry you lost Tomie and although her time was short it was filled with love and care and she will have known that x

Popcorn high little lady 🌈
 
I’m sorry Tomie has gone to RB
This sudden unexpected loss is awful - Tomie lived her bestest life with you all and she couldn’t have wanted for anything more
Popcorn freely at RB lovely Tomie reunited with Leela
Take care of yourselves as you adjust to her loss
 
Sorry for your loss. That was a lovely tribute to Tomie. She lived a wonderful life and sounded like a lovely little character. Sleep tight Tomie x
 
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