amzybabes
Junior Guinea Pig
We have had our two girls, Crumble and Biscuit, for not far off 4 years. Very sadly we lost Crumble around a week ago. Initially, Biscuit seemed ok, but we have noticed over the last few days that she is more quiet that normal, and certainly doesn't seem her usual bossy, boisterous self. She is still eating well, she just seems 'off'.
We would love to get her a new friend, however, the situation has been massively complicated by the timing. For the first (and last) time in the time we have had the girls the guineas have been living at my partner's parents since around May. This has been whilst we were in process of selling and then packing up our flat (they were kept as indoor guineas so needed to go on vacation!). We are currently staying with his parents but are off travelling for 3 months in just under a weeks's time as a once in a lifetime adventure. The guineas will be staying on with the 'in-laws' as such whilst we're away, and we will take charge of them again when we get back.
When we lost Crumble so suddenly we had hoped that Biscuit might manage in her own for the next few months and we would then find a new friend via a rescue when we could be on hand to supervise/coordinate. However I don't think we were quite prepared for how lonely Biscuit would seem. Particularly as she was also very insistent on 'her' personal space within the cage and there was certainly no friendly snuggling allowed! The thought of her by herself for 3 months feeling sad is breaking my heart :-( Partner's mum (who is main caregiver whilst we're away) has also noticed the change and is worried. She has offered to coordinate finding Biscuit a friend if I wanted to get the ball rolling before we leave. However I am aware that a rescue may (quite understandably) be reluctant to let a guinea go to a situation 'in flux' in appearance; we are fully committed to keeping Biscuit and any future pals, or we wouldn't have arranged temporary lodging with family whilst we go away. I really don't want to buy another guinea (would like to give one a home that needs it), and also worried in case I bring home a dominant-minded one....this would not go down well with Miss Biscuit who likes to be queen of all! Particularly unhappy doing this when not around to spend the time introducing/supervising properly myself.
Any thoughts on the best way forward?! It's a bit of a pickle and pressure is on due to the awful timing!
We would love to get her a new friend, however, the situation has been massively complicated by the timing. For the first (and last) time in the time we have had the girls the guineas have been living at my partner's parents since around May. This has been whilst we were in process of selling and then packing up our flat (they were kept as indoor guineas so needed to go on vacation!). We are currently staying with his parents but are off travelling for 3 months in just under a weeks's time as a once in a lifetime adventure. The guineas will be staying on with the 'in-laws' as such whilst we're away, and we will take charge of them again when we get back.
When we lost Crumble so suddenly we had hoped that Biscuit might manage in her own for the next few months and we would then find a new friend via a rescue when we could be on hand to supervise/coordinate. However I don't think we were quite prepared for how lonely Biscuit would seem. Particularly as she was also very insistent on 'her' personal space within the cage and there was certainly no friendly snuggling allowed! The thought of her by herself for 3 months feeling sad is breaking my heart :-( Partner's mum (who is main caregiver whilst we're away) has also noticed the change and is worried. She has offered to coordinate finding Biscuit a friend if I wanted to get the ball rolling before we leave. However I am aware that a rescue may (quite understandably) be reluctant to let a guinea go to a situation 'in flux' in appearance; we are fully committed to keeping Biscuit and any future pals, or we wouldn't have arranged temporary lodging with family whilst we go away. I really don't want to buy another guinea (would like to give one a home that needs it), and also worried in case I bring home a dominant-minded one....this would not go down well with Miss Biscuit who likes to be queen of all! Particularly unhappy doing this when not around to spend the time introducing/supervising properly myself.
Any thoughts on the best way forward?! It's a bit of a pickle and pressure is on due to the awful timing!