The Mad House
New Born Pup
Hi everyone,
Please read everything I've done before replying. I'm looking for people who've successfully bonded trio's of Piggie's together which I know is RARE but I just don't want to give up any sort of hope yet! - I have read the guides on the pages about Bonding boars and signs to look out for that it isn't/is going well too.
So we lost my beautiful boy Patch on Saturday and I'm now left with Gus and Pickett who are bonded on one side of a big C&C cage and Cabbage (who was Patch's friend) on the other side.
All are boys; Pickett is the oldest from a rescue - he's about a year and a half (when we got him the woman told us he was 8 weeks old but we think she was lying because he was way to big to be only 8 weeks, we estimated about 4 months). Gus is about a year and a bit (we got him and Patch from Pets at Home after Mac - the last of my originals passed on). Cabbage is about 8 months (another from Pets at Home because Patch needed a companion when Gus wouldn't leave him alone, Patch was just too soft to stand up for himself).
Cabbage seems to have picked right back up today and yesterday. I think he'd sort of already come to the conclusion Patch wasn't coming back as Patch had been at the vets since Wednesday morning. Still I showed him to him before we buried him and he just sort of sniffed at him and moved on.
I got all three of them out for a big cuddle on Saturday afternoon and they just seemed content having a munch and a sniff - which I know is no indication of whether bonding will go well.
With Cabbage seeming so bright and breezy I decided this morning to try and start some bonding;
I took a big blanket into the office (a smaller space then our open plan living room/dining room/conservatory that they have the whole run of - plus it doesn't have many hidey spaces) and put a big mountain of hay in the middle of it. Then I dry shampooed them all, took them into the office and put them on the floor.
There was a fair bit of teeth chattering, some nose offs and such but all in all things seemed to be going well until my other half came in and started trying to pick them up and stroke them. They seemed a bit off with each other after this, like he'd interrupted the balance they were getting into (is this a thing?)
I read the guides fully on bonding boars so I knew not to step in too early for the teeth chattering, the lunges and that the touching of ears and following each other round was a good sign. They seemed to be doing okay until they ran into a corner and Cabbage started chattering his teeth which Gus was not a fan of. I switched my sitting position then so they couldn't get back near the corner.
Cabbage seemed okay, he was just sort of defensive - sitting out of the way and chattering his teeth a lot until he calmed down again. Pickett is so chill and takes absolutely none of Gus' so he was happy to sit next to Cabbage and just sort of talk to him (it's like he was saying - hey we don't want to hurt you, he also washed himself quite close to him which I've read is a good sign). Cabbage and Gus had a few more nose offs, some teeth chattering and some lunges were thrown but there were no bites and no blood drawn. Gus seemed to calm down after a while and then was just wandering around walking near Cabbage fine no teeth chattering. - They just seemed to flare up and calm down. There was no humping though from anyone, like at all which surprised me.
I ended up stopping after about an hour/45 minutes because I needed the loo and tempers seemed to fray a bit. - I was starting to worry too that it might be too soon for Cabbage. (I don't know if this was just me overthinking though.)
I want to try again maybe tomorrow after work (or even during work now I'm working from home and will have the whole afternoon in the office) but this time make sure I've definitely blocked off all the hidey spaces - Cabbage managed to move a shoe box and get behind the radiator which I hadn't even thought he could do.
Does anyone have any hints of tips for bonding a trio? Has anyone on here done it successfully?
Personality wise I think they're a good match - even though Cabbage is in his teenage years - Pickett and Cabbage are generally both quite chill but also don't seem to take any and Gus is just kind of a big lumbering boar that loves to cuddle but occasionally likes to throw his weight around. I'd love to be able to bond them rather than adding a fourth Piggie to the mix again but if it comes to it, that is an option - because Cabbage needs companionship and I'd feel so horrible if Pickett and Gus were out running around together and he was doing it on his own.
Please read everything I've done before replying. I'm looking for people who've successfully bonded trio's of Piggie's together which I know is RARE but I just don't want to give up any sort of hope yet! - I have read the guides on the pages about Bonding boars and signs to look out for that it isn't/is going well too.
So we lost my beautiful boy Patch on Saturday and I'm now left with Gus and Pickett who are bonded on one side of a big C&C cage and Cabbage (who was Patch's friend) on the other side.
All are boys; Pickett is the oldest from a rescue - he's about a year and a half (when we got him the woman told us he was 8 weeks old but we think she was lying because he was way to big to be only 8 weeks, we estimated about 4 months). Gus is about a year and a bit (we got him and Patch from Pets at Home after Mac - the last of my originals passed on). Cabbage is about 8 months (another from Pets at Home because Patch needed a companion when Gus wouldn't leave him alone, Patch was just too soft to stand up for himself).
Cabbage seems to have picked right back up today and yesterday. I think he'd sort of already come to the conclusion Patch wasn't coming back as Patch had been at the vets since Wednesday morning. Still I showed him to him before we buried him and he just sort of sniffed at him and moved on.
I got all three of them out for a big cuddle on Saturday afternoon and they just seemed content having a munch and a sniff - which I know is no indication of whether bonding will go well.
With Cabbage seeming so bright and breezy I decided this morning to try and start some bonding;
I took a big blanket into the office (a smaller space then our open plan living room/dining room/conservatory that they have the whole run of - plus it doesn't have many hidey spaces) and put a big mountain of hay in the middle of it. Then I dry shampooed them all, took them into the office and put them on the floor.
There was a fair bit of teeth chattering, some nose offs and such but all in all things seemed to be going well until my other half came in and started trying to pick them up and stroke them. They seemed a bit off with each other after this, like he'd interrupted the balance they were getting into (is this a thing?)
I read the guides fully on bonding boars so I knew not to step in too early for the teeth chattering, the lunges and that the touching of ears and following each other round was a good sign. They seemed to be doing okay until they ran into a corner and Cabbage started chattering his teeth which Gus was not a fan of. I switched my sitting position then so they couldn't get back near the corner.
Cabbage seemed okay, he was just sort of defensive - sitting out of the way and chattering his teeth a lot until he calmed down again. Pickett is so chill and takes absolutely none of Gus' so he was happy to sit next to Cabbage and just sort of talk to him (it's like he was saying - hey we don't want to hurt you, he also washed himself quite close to him which I've read is a good sign). Cabbage and Gus had a few more nose offs, some teeth chattering and some lunges were thrown but there were no bites and no blood drawn. Gus seemed to calm down after a while and then was just wandering around walking near Cabbage fine no teeth chattering. - They just seemed to flare up and calm down. There was no humping though from anyone, like at all which surprised me.
I ended up stopping after about an hour/45 minutes because I needed the loo and tempers seemed to fray a bit. - I was starting to worry too that it might be too soon for Cabbage. (I don't know if this was just me overthinking though.)
I want to try again maybe tomorrow after work (or even during work now I'm working from home and will have the whole afternoon in the office) but this time make sure I've definitely blocked off all the hidey spaces - Cabbage managed to move a shoe box and get behind the radiator which I hadn't even thought he could do.
Does anyone have any hints of tips for bonding a trio? Has anyone on here done it successfully?
Personality wise I think they're a good match - even though Cabbage is in his teenage years - Pickett and Cabbage are generally both quite chill but also don't seem to take any and Gus is just kind of a big lumbering boar that loves to cuddle but occasionally likes to throw his weight around. I'd love to be able to bond them rather than adding a fourth Piggie to the mix again but if it comes to it, that is an option - because Cabbage needs companionship and I'd feel so horrible if Pickett and Gus were out running around together and he was doing it on his own.