Single piggy after death

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I lost my 5.5 year old Guinea pig the other day. He has always spent his life with my other pig, and is possibly even a father or brother to him. My remaining pig has taken his death rather hard and I don’t think he is the type of pig that could live alone. I also have a puppy and wouldn’t be able to give him the amount of attention he would need to live that way. However, I am transitioning to dog ownership and am not ready to commit to another 5-9 years of Guinea pig ownership. The little guy is also around 5.5 years old. The other pig was lost in a somewhat traumatic way, mostly because of how the vet handled the situation. I can’t stand the thought of rehoming my remaining pig. There is also apparently a crisis of Guinea pigs being abandoned where I live. I even heard a story the other day of someone abandoning a pregnant pig in a public bathroom. So even if I was comfortable rehoming him, I have significant concerns about what might happen to him if I did. I also want to spread the ashes of the two together once my remaining pig passes as their bond was so close that I want them to be together.

So, I have landed on two possible solutions, but neither feel great. The first is to foster. I am not sure if I can do this given I don’t own a car. But this is one consideration. The concern here is that Skunk will then have a revolving door of piggies coming in and out of his life, and possibly some time spent alone. It seems like he would bond and then have his partner ripped away from him over and over again which sounds awful.

The second option is to buy more piggies with the intention of rehoming them once he passes. I have a cage large enough for three so I could buy a younger pair and rehome them together while they are still relatively young as skunk is likely to only live a couple more years assuming I am lucky. I don’t love the idea of getting pigs I will end up rehoming and worry I will bond and struggle to do this when the time comes, but this is the best solution I can come up with. I also don’t love doing it with babies and taking them from the only home they have ever known. I could do this with older pigs, but then I risk Skunk getting attached again only for them to die on him and having the same problem as the beginning. Plus I couldn’t rehome them so eventually I would be left with a single pig all over again. Alternatively, I could go with a 2-3 year old pig, but then they’d also be difficult to rehome as they’d be older pigs by the time he passes.

I feel like there is no good choice here and I honestly don’t know what to do.
 
The second option is to buy more piggies with the intention of rehoming them once he passes. I have a cage large enough for three so I could buy a younger pair and rehome them together while they are still relatively young as skunk is likely to only live a couple more years assuming I am lucky. I don’t love the idea of getting pigs I will end up rehoming and worry I will bond and struggle to do this when the time comes, but this is the best solution I can come up with. I also don’t love doing it with babies and taking them from the only home they have ever known. I could do this with older pigs, but then I risk Skunk getting attached again only for them to die on him and having the same problem as the beginning. Plus I couldn’t rehome them so eventually I would be left with a single pig all over again. Alternatively, I could go with a 2-3 year old pig, but then they’d also be difficult to rehome as they’d be older pigs by the time he passes.
There is a different type of fostering solution, which has really taken off in the past 10 years in Germany. It's called Leihmeerschweinchen, which is like 'guinea pig on loan'. You adopt a rescue guinea who is personality compatible with yours, with the rescue agreeing that the rescue guinea will go back as soon as your older guinea dies. This way no guinea is alone. You could suggest it to a rescue place and see what they say. Some rescue places will do the bonding for you.

I see you don't own a car. Neither do I. I don't even have a driving license, so I can't rent or borrow a car. But still I have managed through years and years of guineas. Some rescue people are so shocked when I agree to come to them if they could collect me at train station or bus stop that they drive all the way to my door! When you're less in shock at the death of Bear, you may be better able to see solutions in this respect. Could somebody drive you for instance? Neighbour, friend, relative, even just an acquaintance? Some people love to be helpful!

My experience is that not all guineas get absolutely attached to their cage mate(s) the way we think they might so they're (often) happy to bond with a new mate so long as they're compatible personality wise. I note you say that Skunk is taking it hard, but maybe being alone is hard? Or maybe he's picking up on how upset you are and that's hard too? Not that you should hide your feelings - it's normal and important to grieve, but I found solace always in being near my live guineas during grieving. I am pleased to see that you are no longer saying you killed Bear, because you absolutely didn't! Good step forwards in grieving process.

I don't think an older guinea is necessarily harder to rehome. There are people (like you, potentially) looking for older piggies. Word just needs to get around in Ireland that older guineas are absolutely adorable too!

Don't worry about taking babies from the only home they've ever known. If guinea owners intend to give those guineas to a home, better your home with an adult guinea and a caring owner than lots of places. When you get to the stage of looking for a new mate there is lots of information here on the forum on how to bond. Just ask, somebody can link it for you. I don't want to overwhelm you anymore just now.

Do take your time to read thru and absorb the information you've received here on the forum, like the link from Sportbilly, because it can be a lot to take in.
Sitting with you while you grieve :hug:
 
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