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RE poss. Rainbow bridge

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Hi guys,

I think I already know in my heart what’s right, but I suppose out of guilt I want to hear it from others too.

Bellamy, my 6 year old lunk. Never been sick or sorry in his 6 years which is obviously all anyone wishes for. Feb last year he had surgery to remove what turned out to be a malignant mammary mass. Soared through like a champ and been happy since. Start of December last year I noticed he was picking food up funny and after a visit to Simon, it was ruled a neurological issue and quite frankly had Simon a little stumped. We’ve trundled on, I’ve been syringe feeding once or twice a day as a little pick me up, he’s been on Meloxicam BID (for arthritis and in case the neurological symptoms were causing discomfort). We ruled out anything sinister, bladder stones etc, Simon said was fair to continue as was otherwise bright, said could potentially have been an inner ear infection that’s caused the slight head tilt (like almost unnoticeable) and he may remain that way.

Recently (as in since Saturday just gone) I noticed he’s been off one of his hind legs intermittently, seems to drag it sometimes or limp. He is still getting around the cage, but not moving as much as he would usually. From Xrays taken December, he has arthritis in that limb and I’m wondering if where he’s been moving around less since the neurological symptoms whether that’s exacerbated the arthritis. His fore paws are looking a little inflamed now as well as a result.

I feel I’m left with no other option but to say goodbye as despite still being bright, still eating when I give him stuff, he can’t be left with that leg like that? And I suspect the inflammation on the forelimbs is again linked to the declined movement so that’s only going to worsen also? It’s so difficult as mentally he is still bright and his cage mate is treating him like normal and going to be heartbroken should I say goodbye. I work in veterinary and know it’s better a day early then a day late but I hate feeling like I’m just giving up.

One deflated pigmum. I’ve lost several boys in such quick succession already.
 
Picture of the boy in question, some through the most recent years. He’s been such a placid, gentle boy. And my first long haired piggy. First bond I’ve made that’s stayed together since the start. I love him so much 💝
 

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I am so sorry for you, we all know what an awful predicament you are in. I would ask for a Frank decision with Simon and see what you are feeling after that. It always feels like a betrayal to them, as though we have given up and let them down but if he is starting to lose that great quality of life that he has had then you are right in thinking that it’s time to say goodbye

He is beautiful, I’m so sorry x
 
So sorry that you are in this difficult situation with your gorgeous boy.
6 is a good age and that is a tribute to your love and care.

You know, in your heart, what the right decision for him is.
You know him and love him so the decision you make will be made out of that love.

Holding you in my heart ♥️
 
I'm incredibly lucky that I've never yet had to make the hardest decision. You know him best and it's obvious your choice will be made out of love.
He's a very handsome boy.
 
BIG HUGS

I hate stampedes to the Rainbow Bridge, which are the bane of having a number of piggies. Deaths happen clusters, rarely nicely spaced apart. They are never easy to deal with, even if you realise that it is jusr random mathematetics at work and nothing to do with your care. :(

Anyway, I support the suggestion of you having an honest talk with Simon. It can help you, as open but respectful talks with various vets have me in comparable situations. Sometimes, the overall balance just doesn't add up any longer for a frail older piggy. It is always so much more difficult when the full weight of the decision rests on your shoulders alone and is not taken off you by circumstances forcing an emergency pts. The soul-searching and the urge to get absolutely right is so much stronger when it all hangs on you. Especially when you haven't yet recovered from previous losses. I so feel for you! Your own pets are something very different from your professional experience because of the bond you share; you cannot keep your professional distance. :(

 
Lovely photos of Bellamy! Sending support and care for you and him while you form a decision, with help from Simon maybe and your own veterinary knowledge.
 
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