Poor McMac :(

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LittleEskimo

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Some of you might know that recently I went through a tough time with one of my guinea pigs Momo. He sadly was sent to sleep yesterday and ive been having a hard time getting my head around it all. But I am most worried about McMac. He seems so alone in that cage and in the garden. He seems to be ok, he doesn't seem depressed but he looks so lonely and unsure and scared since Momo had to go to the vets on Thursday.

What can I do? I just want to make him happy. While Momo was at the vets I always worried what would happen to McMac and how he would cope with being alone...Momo was the braver of the two while McMac was very timid. and I feel that without Momo's company and bravery McMac is going to get frightened and timid at anything.

I don't feel ready to try to get him a friend. I feel guilty and I feel i'm not quite ready myself and I don't know how McMac would react...So what can I do to help McMac to not feel lonely and scared?
 
He doesn't seem happy at all :( he wont even enjoy the grass and the bell pepper i gave him. He just sits there wide eyed and frightened...is it my fault?
 
i felt exactly like you as my piggies died living dylan 5 years old alone, i needed time to grieve and didnt want to just replace them but Dylan lost weight and became more withdrawn so i took him boar dating and he is a new piggy with a new lease of life i feel so guilty getting a new piggy so soon within 3 days but i think guilt is a human feeling so i totally understand why you dont want to get him a friend yet.

You could try a teddy and giving him lots of cuddles which I'm sure your doing but i found it hard to even look at Dylan as it was a painfull reminder of what i had lost, and also lots of his favourite veggies.

Sorry not much help just trying to share my experience not judge as i felt the same as you.

Hope you are bearing up ok. xx
 
No it is not your fault at all guinea pigs grieve like us but please do not feel it is your fault, you had to do the right thing for Momo and you are doing the best for Mcmac now if you werent he would be stuck in his cage and you would not of even noticed he was sad.
 
Maybe a new pig is what is good for him...I don't know. I can't help but feel guilty and horrible since it is so soon. But McMac has been alone for 4 days now and he just seems to scared to do anything. When Momo felt brave so did McMac but now Momo isn't here to show him how to be brave...I need to think about what I should do and what is best for McMac. so difficult :(
 
A teddy might help hun then he will feel like hes not on his own and none of this is your fault dont ever think that
 
Oh it's so hard to know what to do :(
You will know what's best for your little piggie...... and if you can find a friend then that ok........
Momo will understand..........piggies know that they need friends and company XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX


HUGS for you all XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx
You've been thru so much :(
 
I know exactly what you are going through as on 15 Aug I lost my beloved Shadow and Fluffy, was devastated (and still cry whenever I think of him, even at this moment) , his cagemate suddenly started to loose his spark..I was giving him extra cuddles, his favourite treats but..this what really cheered him up was a new friend which we gave him after 2 weeks after our little Shadow died..I was not quite ready for this as well but you have to think about your little friend..give yourself a bit of time and think about getting a new one as guinea pigs are herd animals and need company Hugs to you X
 
I know exactly what you are going through as on 15 Aug I lost my beloved Shadow and was devastated (and still cry whenever I think of him, even at this moment) ,and Fluffy his cagemate suddenly started to loose his spark..I was giving him extra cuddles, his favourite treats but..this what really cheered him up was a new friend which we gave him after 2 weeks after our little Shadow died..I was not quite ready for this as well but you have to think about your little friend..give yourself a bit of time and think about getting a new one as guinea pigs are herd animals and need company Hugs to you X
 
It is perfectly normal to feel guilty after the loss of our pets but please remember you did everything you possibly could for Momo. I'm sure he's now happy and at peace.

McMac is now your priority and although it's hard we have to do what's best for your Guinea Pig but you also need to be aware McMac will be scared without his friend any signs of not eating, subdued fluffed up fur, sitting in a corner or weight loss then a vet visit is warranted to be sure he is well. If you don't weigh McMac at present I would suggest you start so you can monitor his weight - usually this is the first sign of illness.

Personally, I would leave McMac on his own '14 days' with your company of course he will become aware his friend is no longer here and it also allow's you to monitor him closely for any signs of illness well making arrangements to take him boar dating so he can choose a new companion.

Please do remember you not replacing Momo, it's impossible you are simply just getting a new friend for McMac, this does not mean you love Momo any more or that you are disrespecting him. I'm sure Momo would not want McMac to be lonely!
 
I agree with what everyone else has said and what you're going through really is normal. I felt exactly the same when I lost one of my boars last year and was left with just his cagemate. Most of us have been through this with our own piggies.

For now, give McMac a babyproof soft toy to snuggle up to, if he wants. If he isn't already living indoors then I'd definitely keep him inside, somewhere where you can keep an eye on him and give him lots of attention.

It's obviously up to you what to do next but if you do decide to find McMac a new friend then maybe giving a rescue pig a second chance would give you extra comfort, in knowing that you were able to help a piggy who has been waiting for a loving home like yours, so at least something good can come out of such a sad situation. If you did some 'boar-dating' and let McMac choose his own friend then you'll know that he accepts his new friend and is ok with it. He wouldn't be trying to replace Momo but he would be letting you know that he wanted a new companion and a chance to make a new friend of his own kind. Maybe think of it that way? x
 
I do need to think what is best for McMac. He is eating which is good but hes just so scared and lonely. I think I will consider getting him a friend...Maybe even a girly if I can afford the neutering. I just want to make sure McMac is happy and isn't alone. I do love Momo and after reading what you have all said I realised that making McMac happy won't mean I don't love Momo. Thankyou :) I will need to think over it all but in the end if it makes McMac happy again I will adopt him a friend
 
I know it is hard for you to think of getting a new guinea pig but your little baby is very sad and lonely and he needs a friend. I would get one as soon as possible.
 
such a difficult situation

This is such a difficult situation,and one that either everyone on here has had,or will probably have in the future - it is so hard - but not your fault that he is sad and you should definately not feel guilty - you did the best for Momo and you are looking after Mcmac - that is more than (sadly ) a lot piggy owners do.Definately weigh him to keep a check on the weight ,and I have heard many times on this forum that a child safe teddy is a good idea.

Hug to you Both
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Nuetering Fund

If you are thinking of getting Mcmac nuetered if & when you can afford it,suggest popping those 20ps or 50ps in a pot - they add up quicker than you think.

x
 
I just decided to bring him into the conservatory instead of being in the run as he was just huddled in the corner. He seems happy enough in here with me although the dog pouncing at the door gave him a scare. Hes got some veg to munch on and i made him some little paper tents. I do think he needs company. Unfortunately I have college and I'm worried that he will get lonely and depressed when I cant see him. I think a piggy will be the answer. But I don't know when it is a good time to get one. I do hope Momo will understand, wherever he may be. I can't leave McMac alone. What I was considering is squeezing him into my bedroom somewhere. Or maybe even move him into the dining room so he gets some human interaction. Mum needs convincing and I need to think it all over :/ hmmm
 
High Traffic area In house for loan piggy

Yes,Ive read on here that putting Mcmac in a high trffic area of the house where theer is lots of action or through traffic is a good idea - I suppose lots more to see and distract him from - my piggys are in the lounge ( though I'm sure ive read that shoulnt be near a loud t.v beacause of their sensitive hearing (mine arent near a t.v by the way )- a lot of people have their piggies in their bedroom as well.
 
Yeah i think that would be a better idea. Id move him onto fleece to stop the mess factor and ill get his cage a stand to sit on. We have an open plan type kitchen diner so he would be able to get lots of attention as i love to cook and he can get all the veg cut offs. I think that would be a great idea if I can convince mum he wont smell lol
 
Please make sure your dog can't get to him, I would hate to see Mcmac getting hurt.

Bringing him in is a good idea, also if you decide to neuter him make sure you find a very Cavy savy vet and you also have to be aware of post-op complications.
 
No I will make sure my dog can't get to him. She normally just likes to eat his poo and she's not an aggressive dog. I will make sure that she cant get to him. Ill make sure the stand/table is taller then her on her back legs. Better safe then sorry. How would I convince my mum that hes not smelly. He really isn't smelly. She just seems to think so lol
 
Bumble watches me cut up veg in the Kitchen

Bumble can see me in the kitchen from where he is,he stands on his hind legs in the corner of his cage & shouts at me as he watches me cut up veg - he loves it & he is a lone piggy . Very nosy one too!:a19:
 
I love C&C cages they are so versatile and easy. Ive wanted one since I first discovered them but its hard to get hold of everything over here
 
Correx Is the Stuff Esatae Agents boards are made from

Correx is what estate agents boards are made from - I blagged mine from a local estate agent that didnt need certain ones anymore where they couldnt be used again- just cut them to size, & tape together on the back - :))
 
This link gives you info on where you can source what you need for a c&c cage and the cage is pretty awsome! [ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1D29WcRyUP0[/ame]

As for convincing your mum....hmmm I don't know. But if he does come in she will end up loving him :)
 
I love these videos :) I wish I could have a room just for my animals but since I still live at home its very difficult :L but when I move out I sure will :) I think I might just plead my mum until she says yes lol
 
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