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I have been pondering once more what's best for my boys. I have posted here a few times over the last year and got some great advice but at times due to inexperience, not enough knowledge and a little to much good intentions we have ended up with our 3 lovely boys. Herbie is almost 4, Sven is about 18mths and Norman is around 7months.

Herbie was our first, and is my wife's baby. Is is a guinea lion, who has no fear, will take on all those who enter his space, he is free range... So this includes the Hoover and the dog (never alone together).
We rehomed Sven also from a p@h adoption thing as a friend for Herbert, but then found out thanks to wiebke all about boars and it turns out that herbie is quiet happy on his own with Sven next door. This was fine and after 6 months they stopped chittering at each other, and when we reintroduced them they ate and were fine for 45 mins and then started the dominance phase and we lost our nerve. I know this is wrong but with a screaming wife it's hard to reiterate a logical point, thus attempts abandoned.

Herb is fine with his arrangement but I felt Sven needed more as he is still very skittish even after nearly a year, tho he is much braver than he was.

So again I saw a 6mth old Norman needing a home and couldn't say no, thinking he was young enough that Sven could have a friend.

After his quarantine it turned out that herbie like Norman and during intros humped him silly which norm took, but he got his bum bruised and again I became the bad guy and the intros were off. The 3 boys live happily side by side and chat away all day and night, each visits the others during their floor time.

I recently spoke to a rescue who offered to take my 3 boys and try to see if they could bond them for me, by which I mean see if a pair could take to each other from the three, and if they could find a friend for the remaining little guy.

But my concerns are as follows...

Herbies health at his age with the stress of it all the rescue is 2 hrs away.

How do I transport them home if the key to success is space and new territories trigger dominance, can't use travel carriers then?

If anything happens to any of her boys, where will I love when my wife throws me out?!?

It's a reputable rescue with experience bonding guineas and they have offered to keep them for a week to ensure the bonds r secure ( as can be).

Wife currently says leave as is, the boys seem content.
I wanted to take all 3 as it helps me and the rescue and a lonely piggy find a new home, but potentially I do think herbie could be happier on his own, he's more of a people piggy.

Space wise the boys have a reasonable sized single beadroom, with most of the floor as a run accessed one at a time with their cages all round the outside.
 
I have been pondering once more what's best for my boys. I have posted here a few times over the last year and got some great advice but at times due to inexperience, not enough knowledge and a little to much good intentions we have ended up with our 3 lovely boys. Herbie is almost 4, Sven is about 18mths and Norman is around 7months.

Herbie was our first, and is my wife's baby. Is is a guinea lion, who has no fear, will take on all those who enter his space, he is free range... So this includes the Hoover and the dog (never alone together).
We rehomed Sven also from a p@h adoption thing as a friend for Herbert, but then found out thanks to wiebke all about boars and it turns out that herbie is quiet happy on his own with Sven next door. This was fine and after 6 months they stopped chittering at each other, and when we reintroduced them they ate and were fine for 45 mins and then started the dominance phase and we lost our nerve. I know this is wrong but with a screaming wife it's hard to reiterate a logical point, thus attempts abandoned.

Herb is fine with his arrangement but I felt Sven needed more as he is still very skittish even after nearly a year, tho he is much braver than he was.

So again I saw a 6mth old Norman needing a home and couldn't say no, thinking he was young enough that Sven could have a friend.

After his quarantine it turned out that herbie like Norman and during intros humped him silly which norm took, but he got his bum bruised and again I became the bad guy and the intros were off. The 3 boys live happily side by side and chat away all day and night, each visits the others during their floor time.

I recently spoke to a rescue who offered to take my 3 boys and try to see if they could bond them for me, by which I mean see if a pair could take to each other from the three, and if they could find a friend for the remaining little guy.

But my concerns are as follows...

Herbies health at his age with the stress of it all the rescue is 2 hrs away.

How do I transport them home if the key to success is space and new territories trigger dominance, can't use travel carriers then?

If anything happens to any of her boys, where will I love when my wife throws me out?!?

It's a reputable rescue with experience bonding guineas and they have offered to keep them for a week to ensure the bonds r secure ( as can be).

Wife currently says leave as is, the boys seem content.
I wanted to take all 3 as it helps me and the rescue and a lonely piggy find a new home, but potentially I do think herbie could be happier on his own, he's more of a people piggy.

Space wise the boys have a reasonable sized single beadroom, with most of the floor as a run accessed one at a time with their cages all round the outside.

A residential full boar bonding means that the boys will be firmly bonded when they come home and that their bond is as stable as a sow bond. The rescue is going to stress test the bond over a days and also in a smaller space than they will have at your home to make sure that it is really stable. A week also gives them time to try different combinations with a suitable calming down period in case the first
introduction is not working out; it allows for up to three rounds of bonding.

Guinea pigs travel surprisingly well. I have travelled regularly for 2 hours in the car for a weekend at my MIL with my first piggy couples, and have travelled up to 6 hours with piggies of mine, by can and by train.
Here are travelling tips: Travelling with guinea pigs

However, if your wife has such massive anxiety issues, I would recommend to leave be and let the boys get on as it is, as they don;t sound unhappy to me.

I would strongly recommend that when you get down to one piggy to not rehome yet another boar on spec, but to have him properly bonded at a good rescue. If I remember correctly; the concept of neutering didn't make it past the wife, either?
 
Your other options is to have them all neutered and find the a wifepig, much easier and less stress and a minute chance of a failed bond x
 
I know that it's a great opportunity for the boys and the best chance for us to bond well.

Your correct that neutering is off the table for herbie, due to the risks, however small. And if he can't have a wife it's not fair to have him next to the boys happily cuddled up with theirs.
My wife's anxiety is purely worry that any harm will come to her boys, specially since they seem happy enough.
I just wonder if they wouldn't be happier in pairs...
Which is our debate.
 
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