Not ranting or anything here..

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Was just wandering if everyone is ok with me being on this forum? A couple of people have misunderstood a couple of my threads and i wanted to make sure i wasn't unwanted. I did not join this to make arguments with people, i joined because i enjoy this wonderful group of piggy lovers whom i can share conversations with :)
 
I havent noticed anything you have said that has been offensive... :-\ Ive only just started posting after a few days so I dont know if anything has been said.. :-\

As long as it doesnt get personal and we remember we are all friends, theres no reason to feel worried that you arent accepted...its an open forum and the more the merrier. As with anything you have the few people you have that extra friendlyness with, but it doesnt reflect anything bad on you or anyone else :) O0
 
Hmm if i have assumed i apologize. Just that i feel that people have done because i have recently made suggestions on things. If something does not work out on here or something does not come new to this forum i will accept the reasons why. But i don't see why it is a problem to just suggest something, even if it doesnt actually happen.
Well i definitely think you lot are friendly and i hope you guys know that i would never intentionally mean to start anything on here :)
 
Sorry I'm a bit xx0 this morning...

Can you give me an example hun?

Like i say i know you as a member and you have never upset me so I'm not sure what you mean about suggesting things? :-\
 
When i suggested over sigs (as an example) i accepted the space limit etc, but i think people thought i was arguing against the fact of not having them.
 
Well when someone suggested having a profile page i pointed out that would take up a lot of space and the mods shouldnt have to pay for it...but its just playing from the other point of view...its not being nasty or not respecting what you are saying..

If people had a problem with you the mods would have said something.... :)

Try not to worry, its hard to fit in sometimes, but give it time and you will, and you'll get to know people and the way they type things, so you can tell how to take it (if that makes sense) ;D :)
 
Oh Kat you have made me feel so much better that i am not the only paranoid one, i feel like this all the time, I blurb alot and sometimes feel i say inaproiate things,


But these guys seem really forgiving, and except you for u and if you step to far over the line, they will tell you NICELY >:D
 
piggybaker...i think you are fantastic, one of my favorites on here....and you are going through a bit of a poo time, so i guess you would feel like that.

I would be upset if you ever went, and it would be strange not seeing your posts!
 
You haven't upset me AT ALL Kat, don't worry. I'm often worried I'm going to upset people too, I hate causing upset.

bighugs

Clare xx
 
aww Kat you certainly have not offended me, as you say everyone is nice here and you would be told by some one nicely that you said something not nice, see my posting on big no no on the food posting
basically give out advice by all means whether you got it from books internet or experience fine, but please dont push it as sometimes it happens that it feels you are a know it all ( I mean that nicely of course) and being bossy which can upset some, if this does happen one of us will say to you in a nice way because we are nice girls on here and as long as you accept that then arguments dont start which can happen and is not nice, as there are some young girls on here my 11 year old daughter included I would hate to think of anything argumentative happening while she was on here chatting, bascially they are our pigs and its our choice to take advice or not, stick tot hat and all will be well,
its such a shame some like you are worried about saying anything in case it offends others if you think it would offend you then dont post it , ;)
 
I am not a bossy person at all. What appears as being bossy, actually wasn't. I simply just suggested something that i had a good reason to have, even though there is a limit. I never tried pushing mods into getting them at all, i just couldn't see why people were so against small ones, wide in length considering our avatar cannot fit any writing on it.
I wasn't exactly aware that i would feel offended before i actually posted that and like i previousy said, it was a suggestion..hardly a problem as it may have been allowed. Just unfortunate it wasn't. I am sure there are other people that like creative sigs under their posts aswell as myself. But i have accepted why they have been un accepted, thats what i am saying. So i am just a little confused to why people are assuming that i am pushing the idea of getting a signature, when basically i am not doing that.
 
It is very easy to misunderstand what a person has said over a computer, especially for me. I am terrible at explaining things very clearly. So if anyone thinks that i am just basically trying to push myself in getting something on this forum, i am not. That is not my intention of joining a forum, yes maybe trying to get a yes in something could well be, but then i soon start to realize that there would be a very good reason to why this wouldn't be allowed. Do you all see what i mean here ?:)
sorry for double posting, the previous post would not let me modify.
 
Don't worry about it Kat - please don't worry O0 No one thinks bad of you.

Clare xx
 
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