@Wiebke so what do you suggest I do as I don’t know his background as bought at rescue part of pets at home and they said he had issues with his brother but we believe they could have lied seeming the way he is with others, I want him to have someone with him as I was hoping he would join the group as cause of him fighting with his brother he spent a long time by himself before I got him, I don’t know if he will be any different with girls and I’m worried he’s getting lonely could I try a behaviourist?
Hi!
Please click on the green guide links in my first post and take the time to read them. Follow the advice of
@Piggies&buns , which is entirely the same that I can give.
Do your your research first and explore any possible options:
- Living alongside the other boars on his own in a separate enclosure so he still has interaction and stimulation through the bars.
- Has he been friendlier with one of your other boys and is tolerating him in his space or is he tolerating no other boar near him?
In the first case, you can try and see whether the two boys will bond as a pair to live in a separate enclosure.
In the second case I would not even try!
Here is our detailed bonding guide:
Bonding and Interaction: Illustrated social behaviours and bonding dynamics
- Neutering to live with a sow. If this is a question of this being the only way for companionship for your boar, then you may find a vet who may be willing to operate once strict lockdown conditions may be lifted.
Several of my own neutered boars (who all live with a sow or more) have started out as single or fallen-out and no longer wanted boars; they have a very happy life indeed! We call neutered boars living with female company 'husboars'.
Your boy is sounding rather traumatised, to be honest.
- Contact a good welfare standard rescue within your reach to see whether he can be dated under social distancing measures with a suitable single guinea pig of theirs.
List of recommended and vetted good standard of welface rescues where you any piggies are in safe and experienced hands:
Rescue Locator
- If you feel too overwhelmed by the problem, you can also contact the RSPCA or another rescue so they can take on the boy and make sure that he gets the happy life he deserves. Knowing your limits and when you have reached them is part of good ownership. Your particular set-up is not necessarily ideal for all possible options; neither is mine with strictly neutered boars and sows living in pairs or groups according to their social needs and limitations (I have adopted a number of the socially more tricky to bond or socialise piggies).
Not every adoptee on spec will necessarily fit into your particular situation. It may look good on paper; in pigson it can be an entire different story!
Group dynamics can turn sour over time or never get off the ground in the first place. You have to take these things on the chin, forget about your pride and work out the best solution for the piggy in question. I have done this once or twice myself, and I am still proud that these piggies did have a very happy end to their lives that suited their specific needs - but not in my own home.
Sometimes it is enough to help a piggy with special needs (and that can include social issues) on their way to find happiness somewhere else. You have got him out of a bad place in the first place and are instrumental in finding him lasting fulfillment.
Take your time to think things through and don't make any knee jerk decisions. It is always a very gutting experience when bonding or group life goes haywire. Wait until you can see past your upset. the current situation is unfortunately not making things easier for you.