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my 17 year old just gave me hell and said he was leaving so he grabbed a sack of clothes, he is so bad since he left training he is at a lost what to do with himself he wa straining to be a chef but the training has stopped for 3 months and left him with nothing but reading up on it at home, well no 17 year old is going to do that, his placement is shut for 3 months , so he said sod the lot of it and has been spending the last week looking for a job, and its all making me stressed,
I know he has gone to his girlfriends her parents are away for 2 weeks , but i'm so cross and sad with him as i have been paying out for his car insurance and giving him money and feels like he has thrown it all back at me, so am going into pig shed for some serious cuddling,
 
Hugs to you Michelle, my son's only 6 but I was a nightmare teenager so am not looking forward to him getting like that :-\ It must be awful, cos you love them so much - I think you just need to go with the flow and not be too dictatorial and hopefully he'll come back home soon. My parents were like Hitler and I rebelled big time and I still have a very poor relationship with them so I'm planning on doing the opposite with my son (will let you know in about 10 years if the experiment's worked!)

Hope the pig cuddles did the trick :)
 
michellemuffin said:
my 17 year old just gave me hell and said he was leaving so he grabbed a sack of clothes, he is so bad since he left training he is at a lost what to do with himself he wa straining to be a chef but the training has stopped for 3 months and left him with nothing but reading up on it at home, well no 17 year old is going to do that, his placement is shut for 3 months , so he said sod the lot of it and has been spending the last week looking for a job, and its all making me stressed,
I know he has gone to his girlfriends her parents are away for 2 weeks , but i'm so cross and sad with him as i have been paying out for his car insurance and giving him money and feels like he has thrown it all back at me, so am going into pig shed for some serious cuddling,
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aww sweety..sorry youre goin thru that,at least you have your pigs to think about and cuddle you

right now my dads just bitched off at mum for no reason at all ( apart from saying he wants food NOW! ,when the fridge etc is empty and saying " start thinking about me more " ,she thinks about him " more " than anything else but how can she cook etc when we have no food in or the money to buy it!yeah whatever ::) )
 
Awww. Poor you. The joys of having kids i guess! I remember being a bit rebelious. Most kids are as you prob already know. :) Hopefully he'l find a good job soon and will get back to a routiene.
 
I know how you feel Michelle, I have a 14 year old step son with attitude that stinks what ever I say and do is wrong

I have done my best and I am sure you have too they have to work it out for themselves
I am sure the piggies enjoyed the cuddles

love karen
 
Big hugs Michelle, I'm sure Floo will make you feel better when he grabs you in the shed :-* :-*
 
just spent over 2 hours in sheds and yes floo did give me lots of hugs bless him I simply adore that piggy, Liam fightened the life out of me when he popped his head round the shed door and said sorry bluddy kids hubbys not very happy with him, but Liam has got this meeting on thursday so he has to listen to what they say and then deciede what he wants to do, apparently Liam came home and said to Mick wheres mum? micks reply was where does she always go when lifes a bitch for her lol he knows me so very well, the pigs got a cleaning out a day early and the 3 little baby boys are amusing I watched them playing they are like little kids chasing each other and running through the fiddle stix tunnels, jumping on each other teasing the pigs in the next run by poking thier noses through the bars, them little fur balls give me so much unconditional love they are worth their weight in gold ,
just had a shower and hubbys gone to get a takeaway so feeling so much better thanks for your ideas,
I'm a pretty laid back type mum so get annoyed when its thown back at me , snugglypig I do feel for you a step son with attitude owww, not nice , Liams my 3rd son and got 2 to go one boy and one girl ,will I live through parenthood i wonder lol
sars your dad wants a dose of reality your poor mum, my dad was a bit of a control freak and I made a choice to be the dead opposite,
 
he needs a dose of laxatives in his damn food too,I'm really annoyed to hell with him tonight,and the control freak is in front of his tv again..controls in hand >:( >:(
 
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he needs a dose of laxatives in his damn food too,I'm really annoyed to hell with him tonight,and the control freak is in front of his tv again..controls in hand >:( >:(
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That sounds familiar,my Dad is just the same as that and he is 80 this month >:(,my Mum doesn't help though she just puts up with it and always has,perhaps that is why I am totally opposite and maybe sometimes too much :-\ :-\
 
yeah I guess Liams always been the one who would do anything for me, mind you the others are pretty much the same, but it was always him who brings me tissues when I cried at anything even films on tv etc, feel a little better now just hope he gets his choices in life right, but I have to let him make his own choices, you can only guide them,
 
maybe its something about men of that age my dads 67 this year and mums always done what he wants even if she does'nt agree with it, she wont go on holiday with out him and he does'nt like flying so she misses out but she would love to try it, I do feel sorry for women like them, I think men these days are not so bad well Micks not
 
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