My little chicken doesn't love me

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GeorgesHuman

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I've had Elliot since February. He's a little star and whenever I go into the pigs' room he's the first to greet me. He stands on his back two legs with his paws on the pigs home and wheeks wheeks.

While he's in his home he lets me tickle him under his chin, on his cheeky cheek cheeks, on his head and he especially likes me rubbing his shoulders. During free range time on the floor he occasionally lets me tickle his head, but mostly he's too frightened to properly trust me like my George does. Even the newest baby, Oscar lets me handle him more than Elliot does.

Elliot is very fast and does everything to evade being picked up. The other two just let me do it. I've checked him for mites incase it was painful for him to be handled, but he's fine. I think he's just scared.

I thought of maybe sitting with Elliot forhalf an hour or so a day and letting him get used to trusting me. Today I had 15 minutes with him alone without the other 2 pigs and I was speaking softly and telling him how much I loved him and that he was my little owly pig (he looks like an owl with his agouti speckled fur!) and eventually he looked at me and was putting his face near my hand to have more tickles. He made my heart burst with cuteness.

The only other thing I can think of because the other 2 pigs are tame and Elli is afraid of me, is when he was a tiny baby and first came to me he had conjunctivitis and twice a day I had to bathe his eye and put his eye drops in and it must've been painful or uncomfortable for him and perhaps he has associated me with doing things to him that he dislikes.

Anyway, if anyone can offer any advice to make Elliot love and trust me like I love him, please tell me what I can do because he's a little darling, quiet pig and I really want him to feel comfortable around me, even out the security of his home.
 
keep doing what your doing and slowly he will trust you more and more.

Sit on floor with him let him run around you, hand feed treats, cuddle him hand feed treats, it sounds like he is already trusting you little by little

male piggies once they trust you completely its so overwhelming my Piggy RIP trusted me implicitely but it took a while of persistance and constant love

When i tried to get him off the floor i would caringly corner him and he would then run onto my shoulder and snuggle into me. when i was at the vets he would try to run onto my shoulder too. when others were cuddling him he would try to walk from them to me onto my shoulder and snuggle into my neck

another sweet thing he did when i lay on floor with him he would run around me then one day he came up to me and put his front paws on my arm leaned up and kissed my nose - then hopped and skipped - i nearly cried it was amazing. Once your piggy trusts you fully its the most awesome feeling ever and the bond is so strong

Keep spending quality time with him everyday and you will see him unfold and trust will come.

Look into his eyes and tell him how gorgeous he is and whisper sweet nothings in his ears

I kissed my piggys ears too - they like little rose petals :(|)

your getting there keep it up

Love his name Elliott too - do you havbe photo of him id love to see him
 
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Thanks PiggyLove for your advice,

Sorry for your loss. Your tribute to your boy was amazing. What a wonderful friendship you had with your piggy. Do you have any others or was he your only one?

I am going to do all the things you said and kiss his little rose petal ears (awwww!) They are really soft and velevety. Today he just let me tickle his head while he was out on the carpet. He's just running around near me now and already doesn't seem as nervous with me as usual. Maybe it's because i've just given him a bowl full of cucumber, parsley and green beans though!

Elliot is the pig in my avatar.
 
Awww i know how you feel, I am trying really hard with my Jasper. He is a real sensitive boy and timid. He had ringworm when we got him and hated getting his treatment. But i am perservering and getting him out for long cuddles once or twice a day, trying to regain his trust. I talk and sing to him, kiss him etc. You will get there, it just takes patience. Make sure you always have his favourite treats so he associates you with nice things, he will soon forget about the rough start :)



Here he is with his baby Jem, now seperated after a personality clash :(
 
Some piggies are more open and others will never be the greatest of cuddle piggies, even though that means they won't like you!

Some take simply longer to come round. Be patient and persevere. Give lots of praise.
 
Thanks PiggyLove for your advice,

Sorry for your loss. Your tribute to your boy was amazing. What a wonderful friendship you had with your piggy. Do you have any others or was he your only one?

I am going to do all the things you said and kiss his little rose petal ears (awwww!) They are really soft and velevety. Today he just let me tickle his head while he was out on the carpet. He's just running around near me now and already doesn't seem as nervous with me as usual. Maybe it's because i've just given him a bowl full of cucumber, parsley and green beans though!

Elliot is the pig in my avatar.

Eliott is cute x) thank you for what you said. Yes Piggy was verry special indeed its a loss for me and my girlies

I bought 2 baby girls for Piggy to have company hence why i got him neutered :( :x

Another thing which is great is sitting Elliott down on a table and take photos of him and while your taking photos talk to him and put a nice bit of food in front of him. Piggy got used to me taking photos and would just sit there making happy noises whilst i snapped away it was sweet

Give him your attention and love thats all he wants drool
 
Awww i know how you feel, I am trying really hard with my Jasper. He is a real sensitive boy and timid. He had ringworm when we got him and hated getting his treatment. But i am perservering and getting him out for long cuddles once or twice a day, trying to regain his trust. I talk and sing to him, kiss him etc. You will get there, it just takes patience. Make sure you always have his favourite treats so he associates you with nice things, he will soon forget about the rough start :)



Here he is with his baby Jem, now seperated after a personality clash :(

beautiful piggy my very first guinea pig was a himalayan (white with brown nose) her name was Helga

Poor little Jasper sorry he had ringworm poor little darling - well done for persevering it must have been hard.
 
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