Losing 2 guineas & Now 1 left

Puddles1999

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Hi. I had a previous thread regarding all the health issues my 3 guineas have been going through for the past 2 or so months.

Unfortunately Mocha passed away a little over a week ago. We found her in the morning. I’m not sure why she passed but she was Ill. All 3 of them were going back and forth to the doctor. Mochas passing was incredibly hard on us. She was only 4 1/2 years old. Mocha used to be with my other two, Penelope & Minnie. However, mocha became really not nice and their bond was broken. Mocha lived beside my other 2 so they had interaction between the bars. I’ve never met a Guinea like her. She had quite the attitude on her and did not like being picked up or handled lol. You could pet her in the cage but that was on her own terms. She was a very unique baby.

Minnie & Penelope were dealing with teeth issues. Penelope has always had them but she was having flare ups more often. Minnie had teeth issues randomly when she had never had an issue previously. Fast forward, Minnie had been doing great the past week to 2 weeks. Her teeth got sorted out. She started eating hay again, drinking, squeaking all the time. She would squeak if she would hear me walk by their room. She would squeak when I would use the fridge or microwave. She was doing so so good. All of a sudden, Saturday morning she just seemed so weird. She didn’t want anything she normally loved. She usually got some critical care when I’d feed Penelope and she didn’t even touch it. I ended up rushing her to er vet by myself as my boyfriend was at work. She unfortunately passed away there. I held her and talked to her and just wanted her to know I was there for her. I did X-rays and it showed she had a lot of fluid in her abdomen. The vet couldn’t tell me anything about Minnie which is beyond frustrating thinking about it now. So I got absolutely no answers. My sweet baby was also only 4 1/2.

I am so so so heartbroken. I am only left with Penelope now, my sweet girl. Their room is so empty. I don’t hear Minnie’s squeaks when I open the fridge or microwave. It isn’t the same. I have not felt this amount of sadness in so long. I felt so guilty driving home without Minnie with me. I feel like I failed as an owner since they were only 4 1/2. Minnie had always had an abdomen that kind of stuck out a bit more. Not sure why. I’ve had X-rays done of her belly but never got any answers. Minnie and Penelope had a vet appointment tomorrow and I was going to get an ultrasound done of her belly. :( It makes me think maybe she had cancer that never bothered her until now? Cysts? I catch myself searching for answers. It was all of a sudden and I just can not accept that she isn’t in there when I go in there. Losing 2 this close together is so difficult.

Now like I mentioned, I just have Penelope. She has been doing better. Her teeth seem to be bothering her again a bit and she has a doctor appointment tomorrow morning. She started eating some hay again and drinking water. She eats critical care by her self again. (I am so scared she’s going to pass away now as well.) Penelope seems to be doing okay. She still eats and I get her out a lot to help the both of us.

I want to take a break from owning guineas for a while. I love them so dearly and am so passionate about the little guys. I don’t know whether to get Penelope a friend or not. Everything I have seen says to make sure they always have a companion. I don’t know how long Penelope will live for and that’s not an answer anyone would know. I’m thinking of getting her a friend that is around her age so I don’t repeat the pig cycle. I’m scared she won’t get along with this pig though. We don’t have a rescue that has a dating area for them. I have a rescue near me but the lady runs it out of her house and all adoptions are free. So I can’t bring Penelope there and do a dating scenario. I’d most likely have to bring a female home and try to bond them. I am going to wait a few weeks as I’ve seen they will be okay for a few weeks by themselves. I just want the best for her. I would love any advice. Thank you.
 
I’m so sorry for your losses of both Minnie and Mocha, it’s always hard losing piggies so close together. Be gentle with yourself, it sounds like you really loved them and gave them the best possible care it most definitely was not your fault.
As for Penelope being alone, continue weighing her so you can ensure she is eating well, would the rescue allow you to foster a pig from them, who you keep until Penelope passes then you can return as getting one a similar age to her there is still no guarantee that either Penelope or a new piggie will live to the same age.
This link goes to some very helpful guides on the forum regarding bereavement definitely have a look at them:
Death, Dying, Terminal Illness; Human Grieving and Bereaved Companions: Information and Support for Owners and Their Children
 
I’m so sorry for your losses. You did everything you could for them. Take care.

They will be popcorning together forever over the bridge.
 
So very sorry for your losses.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve.
Having recently lost my lovely Micah leaving his wife Ruth alone we took the decision to rehome her as with some major life changes looming we need a break from piggies.
We gave Ruth a new home with another forum member who is a personal friend with her own herd. Ruth has a 5* home now.
Don’t underestimate how difficult it will be for you to give Penelope up.
That is as much a bereavement as the loss of Minnie and Mocha.

If there is a rescue near you that would be a good place to start unless you did decide to try fostering instead of giving Penelope a new home.

Holding you in my heart ❤️
 
I’m so sorry for your losses of both Minnie and Mocha, it’s always hard losing piggies so close together. Be gentle with yourself, it sounds like you really loved them and gave them the best possible care it most definitely was not your fault.
As for Penelope being alone, continue weighing her so you can ensure she is eating well, would the rescue allow you to foster a pig from them, who you keep until Penelope passes then you can return as getting one a similar age to her there is still no guarantee that either Penelope or a new piggie will live to the same age.
This link goes to some very helpful guides on the forum regarding bereavement definitely have a look at them:
Death, Dying, Terminal Illness; Human Grieving and Bereaved Companions: Information and Support for Owners and Their Children
Hi, thank you. ❤️ being completely honest with myself, I don’t think I could foster. I would develop a bond to the new pig and could not let her go back to the rescue. I get attached easily :/ I would then have another single pig once one of them would pass on. Penelope isn’t exactly a spring chicken but she’s also not old either
 
So very sorry for your losses.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve.
Having recently lost my lovely Micah leaving his wife Ruth alone we took the decision to rehome her as with some major life changes looming we need a break from piggies.
We gave Ruth a new home with another forum member who is a personal friend with her own herd. Ruth has a 5* home now.
Don’t underestimate how difficult it will be for you to give Penelope up.
That is as much a bereavement as the loss of Minnie and Mocha.

If there is a rescue near you that would be a good place to start unless you did decide to try fostering instead of giving Penelope a new home.

Holding you in my heart ❤️
Thank you so much. I’m so sorry to hear about Micah. I imagine it was quite difficult for you to do that for Ruth as well. I’m glad you were able to give Ruth to someone you knew and trusted. ❤️

I unfortunately would never be able to part with Penelope. I’m having a hard time with losing mocha and Minnie. Penelope and I have a pretty close bond so it’s just not something I could do. I am thinking of getting her a girl her age who hopefully we find one she gets along with. I am concerned when one of them passes, I will be stuck in the same situation but they could be quite a bit older by the time that happens. I feel like this is such a hard situation for me to tell what’s best. I just want whatever is best for Penelope ❤️
 
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