Going from bad to worse.

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Ok I'm going to rant until the cows come home so feel free to come here n slap me!

My 'best' Friend Maxine has this new boyfriend and i was ok wiv it until he went loopy at me and started emailing me to put it another way bulling me, i told her and showed her the emails and she just said well I'm not taking sides :o i was like theres no side to take! how can you let someone do that to me! and she just shrugged saying she 'loved' him! then he got all possesive she was round my house one night when he text her saying are you ok? he was at hers (practically lives there now!) and he was worried, she had left hers 5 mins before hand! ? if he texts he expects her to reply within 5 mins or he rings and asks where she is and what shes doing, he lives on benifits when hes got the right qualifications and is perfectly healthy so there isnt a reason on earth that he cant work, she wants to marry, move in and have babies with him by the end of next year making her 19! they met 5 months ago and hes planning to do this major proposal on her birthday! and she had the nerve to ask me to be at the party and the maid of honor er NO!
annnnd she used 2 see me every week for an hour and that started to fizzle out until i see her for 5 minuetes! she said 'i dont see him much' what is she THICK she sees him every day practically! and every time i call her up he shouts abuse down the phone and is constantly harrasing me! but she jsut laughs it off saying we are both as bad as each other ER what did i do? so today i lost it and said well shouted, just f**king dump him! lets just say that didnt go down well but i have had enough and everytime i TRY and get out of the friendship she calls and wont leave me alone :o

then i have been trying to get on with everythin while having all of that to think about but i was practising my theory test which was at one today i hear you saying 'shouldnt she be there then?' yes i should! but I'm not because our car packed up and i couldnt get there in time loosing me 19-50 and having to rebook! :'( my mum paid before and said i should pay even though she promised that she would pay for the theory whatever! its her car it died and she promised!

and i just went off on a well i guess tantrum is the best way to put it i kicked the door and it fell from its hinges! my mum has now told me that my dad wont go on the train to my interview with me and i have to get there alone! like i no where the hell teh place is!

i am not having a good 2007 and i have a feeling that its just going to get worse :'( poor zubs had enough of hearing my sob stories,! sorry to rant but i had to get it all off my chest >:(
 
Oh darling! Big hugs :)

Maxine is 'blinded' by love, sweetie. Does not matter what you say or do, she isn't going to want to care. Just be there for her when it backfires :) That's the best you can do for now.
Yes, it's hurting you, but trust me, she will need you more than anyone :)

Sorry to hear about the theory - gives you a bit more time to practise though! :)
 
Kelly you so positive lol! I dont think it will end not unless she ends it hes got a free house, food and another f word ;D
 
sorry to say love is blind 8), all you can do is wait and see and be there if she needs you.

if she lets your friendship go, then really she was no real friend at all.

in life you will go through allot of friends and if your lucky you will find a true one, who stands by you no matter what.

when i got divorced the people i thought were my friends turned their back on me and the people that gave me time and understanding were the people I'd never really given time to.

always give people a second chance and if they hurt you again walk away.

at the moment she's in love and if you moan at her she will just think your jealous, leave well alone even tho it hurts :(

as for your theory test, I'm a great believer that every think happens for a reason :) so don't be negative think of it as a positive thing.

Jan's a crap month anyway ::) things always get worse before they get better, that's what I've been telling myself for the last 6 years ;D
 
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