Forum i need some advice, my teacher is being mean

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Help forum, my teacher is bullying me. My teacher is mean to everyone, after my dad moaned about her she was nice, but now its settled down shes starting to be mean. whenever i walk past, she tells me to pull up my tie - yes, i no it sounds stupid but its getting me down. At first she was nice, but now shes getting mean and speaking to me like I'm dirt.  xx0
On friday she was speaking to our Sub teacher and she let, a ld with no tie walked through, and when she saw me head to the door she said. "wait outside, you no what I'm going to say to you." its not my fault my shirt has a low button, i cant afford to buy another one right now, since i've splashed out on my guinea pigs, she wants me to do up my tie to the top were it sits on my skin because the shirt opens up. up there, the material is itchy and causes rashs on my skin, and the shirt opens up underneath and anyone can see down my shirt. Today she came in to our lesson. and pointed at me put on an evil look and shouted.
"i told you a million times to put your tie up and if you dont, i will give you a detention!" when my friend who has an even lower buttoned top stood behind me, and you couldnt see hers!  i have tried to explain that my shirt is low buttoned so she told me she was going to make me sow a button on after school, or buy a new shirt.  >:( i understand the school wants me to look smart, but why is it always me?! Even if i did get a new shirt, she'd find something else about me to moan on. My friends say she is always mean too me, and i cant really report her for moaning about my tie, though she makes me feel scared and helpless and i try and dodge her at all times, i'd be laughed at! My dad isnt allowed up the school, today when she yelled at me, i got really stressed out and i did up my tie, and my shirt popped out, so yeah, you could of seen down my shirt!  :embarassed: when i got to spanish i was nearly crying and felt like running out of school. its like being bullied that you cant stand up too, and i always stand up for myself against bullies. but not a teacher, i'd get in serious trouble. its coming to the point where i dont want to come in, and when i do, i want to run out.  :-\ please help me forum, i just dont no what to do.
 
Re: Forum i need some advice, my teacher is bullying me!

If I was you then when noone else is around I'd go up to her and say "Look, I'm having a really hard time here. I can't afford to get a new shirt. I just can't. The one that I have is low. It just is. It's not inappropriate, and other people have thiers way lower. I do well in school, and I don't cause trouble. Please stop yelling at me because I can't do any better but I am trying." I used to have a teacher that was just awful. I couldn't stand her! Hopefully that helps you though.

Kimmie
 
Re: Forum i need some advice, my teacher is bullying me!

I was never good at sport and I remember having sports day when I was about 14. We where all doing long jump (I'm only 4 foot 11) and when it was my turn I didnt do very well, and the teacher just laughed! I felt really hurt, she was married to Bobby Smith who played for Leicester City Football club. So if you are out their Dot, I still remember after 21 years!

Mary
 
Re: Forum i need some advice, my teacher is bullying me!

I'm sorry you are having a tough time at school Nat but please be very careful about using the word 'bullying'. People are very quick to use it to describe any kind of conflict or upset these days when actual bullying is something very different.

As Kimmie has said try having a word with her or another teacher you trust in private or maybe just get a safety pin to hold your shirt done up higher so that you are in proper uniform then she can have nothing to complain about.
 
Re: Forum i need some advice, my teacher is bullying me!

Yup... I agree... just have a chat with her or another teacher about what she is doing... just say she makes you feel little te way she always picks you to yell at rather than the other people with their shirts even lower!

Hope it goes well :)
 
starshine said:
I'm sorry you are having a tough time at school Nat but please be very careful about using the word 'bullying'..

yh i know what you mean ill say mean.
 
Well done Nat you've listened to some great friendly advice :)
See if you can speak to one of the coordinators or another teacher that you feel you can chat too, it would make it so much easier for you :)
I remember my school jumpers, made out of wool, which itched me constantly ended up having my arms in bandages so i didn't have the wool on my skin >:(
Pity that they don't have the option of wearing a cotton jumper, at Dee's school they have a woollen jumper or a cotton more casual version but they realised there was allergies and skin reactions to the wool :)
Wishing all the best love :)
 
today she walked in and said "i dont want to have to speak to you."
because we are going bowling tomorrow and we had to be extra neat or else she wouldnt let us go in non uniform tomorrow,
so everyone turned to me, i had to suffer the most uncomfortable ever tie that rubbed against my neck or else be to be the most hated girl in my class.
 
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