Feeling disheartened as bonding didn't go well.

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Well after a few weeks back attempting to bond my 2 girls together and they fought, i separated them and while over xmas have had a few family problems and health problems so i put aside bonding for a few weeks.
Well i thought i would attempt bonding again, this time i tried in the bath first, bathed them both... both were fine.. sat together as i bathed them. Dried them... then put them in the pen to bond them. At first was fine again... about 10 mins past and i heard the first odd chatter of teeth.. but would then stop. Well about 45 mins past and apart from the odd teeth chatter and pretty much ignoring one and other... but then it seemed to turn and Haven (who last time was the one being bullied) seemed to start on Honor and Honor was looking rather worried and tried to get away from Haven who Lunged at her Mouth open and they they faught... lots of yelps.... I quickly ran to separate them with a dustpan and checked both girls. I picked up Honor.. checked her over and she was fine, then noticed Haven had been bit on the face. I checked her over and luckily its not deep. So i put both girls back in their old homes and both are fine as usual.
After two un-successful attempts at bonding, this time with bloodshed... even though it lasted nearly an hour compared to the last time lasting less than half an hour. I am just feeling very fed up.
I don't know what to do :( Do i try again and if so how do i go about it this time? Do i just let them both live alone? I am feeling so lost and disheartened. I hate that they dont get on.
I have done loads of Rabbit and Rat introductions over the years and never had this much of a problem with any of them...Just feeling disheartened. They are both lovely girls and i adore them... i hate that they don't get along :(
 
Unfortunately it sounds like these girls aren't meant to be lifelong friends- piggie politics can be very complicated affairs! I took my bereaved sow, tabby, to a rescue in the summer to bond with a potential boar, it took three boars (and several trips later) before she settled on Mr Right. Yet she took to her late huspig with no qualms.

I wouldn't suggest any more attempts at bonding, this will cause more stress to you and the girls.

Piggies can live side by side, with mesh in-between so they can still talk to one another however it is in the best interests of your girls to have a pig they can share their lives with (to play, to groom, talk to and cuddle up with). Is their any possibility for you to take them pig dating at your local rescue so they can choose a pig of their liking? If you are worried about how you are going to afford four pigs, you could consider bonding one with a pig of their choosing and giving the other the kindest thing you can do, and surrendering her to the rescue so she can go on and find a friend or two for life. :)
I’m not an experienced bonder but have bonded six set of piggies upto now and one boar with a herd of sows. Usually sows are easier to bond with other pigs, but like people they all have their own unique personality!

Wishing you and your girls all the best xxxxxx
 
Thanks for the advice.....I love them both and are both lovely girls.. i have had Honor all her life and i adore and Haven i re-homed from someone in here who didn't have time to look after her anymore although loved her very much. I just love them both and cant imagine not having either of them....

Its so fustraiting as they were fine in the bath.. sat together.. like old friends... and also the first half an hour or so in the pen.. it just then turns pare shaped... :S I want them both to be happy and will have to talk to my family about what to do...... so you think don't try bonding them again even in a bigger space or something?
I feel like such a failure, although i know some pigs just don't get on. Will have to discuss with family if we have the money for 4 piggies and also space etc. Got some serious thinking to do.

xxxxx
 
I'm so confused i dont kniw whats best to do. My step dad want happy wen i got Haven to join Honor...and now i just know he will say no about 2more. i have never given up an animal in my life...i dont know if i can...but i love them both so much i dont know whats for the best.
Has anyone sucessfully introduced after a situation such as this? X
 
I've not got any helpful advice not having faced this situation myself. Just wanted to say how sorry I am it is not working out. I was quite prepared to have my 2 boys live side by side separated by a mesh divider if they did not get on. Fortunately they did. I think your girls would be fine living that way so you don't feel pressured you have to make some sort of decision right away. It is also possible they would do fine being allowed floor time and outdoor run time together.
 
Aw, sorry they haven't bonded but once blood is drawn, there is not much hope.
Piggies are ok living next to each other as they still have company as such so unless you have room etc. to try each with another piggy, would leave things that way.
Don't feel a failure - I have had failed bondings and the piggies just didn't like each other but had a back up plan in place before we took on any more piggies.
Rescues have lots of piggies needing homes so we went 'sow dating' which worked within minutes so bought two more piggies home to live with our new girl (who had fought with the top piggy in the herd) Personalities like humans, clash sometimes.
There is 99% chance your girls just dislike each other but would live happily with another piggy but if this is not possible as you say, keep them close together as you can :)
 
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