BIG HUGS
A dog attack usually happens in a matter of seconds and it really shakes you to the core. I lost my first own piggy and my sister hers in the same attack when a neighbour's dog managed to get through their badly maintained fence onto our lawn when I was a teenager. I cried a river.
Please make sure that the remaining boy is safe for now and that he is eating and drinking.
This will give you ca. 1-4 weeks' time to get past your initial shock and think things through before you make any decisions. Try to avoid any knee jerk reactions right now. They will only cause you further upset and doubts down the line.
1 What can I do immediately after a guinea pig has died?
- Saying goodbye
- What can I do for my grieving piggy?
- Emergency: acute pining (not eating/drinking) or sudden illness
2 New companionship and human grieving
- When can I start looking for a new mate?
- "Replacing" a guinea pig: the conflict between human and cavy needs
- How do I best go about finding a new mate? (Possible options listed for bereaved sows and boars)...
Questions to ask yourself when you are ready:
- In terms of keeping guinea pigs in the same household with a killing dog that now knows where there is prey: Can you really guarantee that it won't happen again? Can you lock/padlock the guinea pig room door and ensure that your dog cannot wiggle past you?
- In terms of company: Can you provide a divided cage space so you can keep your two boys as next door neighbours with full interaction/stimulation through the bars if a bond is not working out?
1 Common myths and misconceptions
2 The different ages (including teenage)
- Important biological facts
- The formative 'School Weeks' (3 weeks - ca. 4 months)
- The Teenage Months (ca. 4-14 months)
- The Adult Years (ca. 15 months - ca. 4-5 years)
- The Golden Age (ca. 4-5 years until end of life)
3 What do boars need? (List of boar dos and don'ts)
- Space, space and more space!
- Respecting the hierarchy
- The 'one for each...
1 Intro: Reality check on where your pets come from
2 Are guinea pigs really the right pet for me?
3 Rescue adoption
- What extra services do good rescues provide that other places don’t?
- What about not recommended rescues? How can I spot a bad place?
- Shelters and rescues – is there a difference?
- How does the adoption process run?
4 Pet shops
- How will you choose your pets?
- Why...
Please take your time to get over the shock and then think hard and honestly about those questions. Don't rush into anything right now and then rue it or have second throughts. Yes, you will feel very upset and guilty but when you have a big stumble in life, ultimately it is more important how you get up and go on from there, and - in your case - whether you are able to really sort out the safety aspect. You cannot undo the past but you can always change the future, even if it comes with the hardest decision of all if you are unable to eliminate any safety concerns. Acknowledging your limits is just as important and sometimes more so as doing your utmost; but it is harder.
But you can only do that when you are able to stop, calm down and really listen to what your heart of hearts is telling you. Give yourself the space to not be OK right now and to absorb the shock first.
Our grieving guide also contains links to pet bereavement charities as well as practical tips and further links if you feel the need for more information and trained help.
1 The grieving process
- Loss and the start of the grieving process
- Grieving with a terminally ill guinea pig
- Going through the grieving process
2 Ways of coping
- Expressing and processing your feelings
- Regaining your guinea pig
- Burial and marking the passing
- Dealing with special days
3 How do I tell my children?
- Finding local support lines and charities...
We are here for you for further questions, community support and practical advice.
I am moving this thread to our new End of Life and Bereavement Support Corner.