The older one did some rumbling, so I think it’s too soon.
How exactly does the bonding process go then? I read some stuff online, but then people on this forum said it was inaccurate so I’m confused on what I should be doing for the next step. I was just going to let them play for a bit in my room as it’s always been pig free and probably separate them again and keep doing that for awhile until they got used to each other.
Rumbling does not mean it is too soon - they are going to rumble all the time. Rumbling is a normal dominance behaviour - it’s a way of sizing each other up. They will do it throughout their entire lives together.
You are looking to ensure any power lie ins (laying together at the barrier - this isn’t necessarily a friendly sign and is rather a territory marking behaviour) or other guarding of the barrier have stopped. You don’t want to bind while there are any of these territorial behaviours going on or while any pig is still nervous or scared. It doesn’t sound like they are scared and hiding though. A scared pig is likely to overreact and be defensive and thus mean the bonding is tense and likely unsuccessful.
No, that isn’t how you bond. You cannot put them together to play and then separate them repeatedly. Doing that will cause a huge amount of stress and frustration. Every time you separate, you cause bonding to stop entirely. This means they have to start from the beginning next time only for it to end up being stopped again - meaning they never get far enough into the bonding process to actually bond.
Bonding is a one time event seen to conclusion, whether that is success or failure, on that one day.
You put them on neutral territory with just hay and water (no hides should be in the bonding pen) and leave them together in the pen all day and potentially overnight (this is why a pen is better than just leaving them to roam in a room) if there are any hierarchy sort outs still going on.
Their time in neutral territory needs to be at least several hours - you never want to rush this part, the longer they are in neutral the better.
If all goes well in neutral territory, you clean out the cage they are to live in together and then move them back to their cage together. You do not ever separate after successful introduction.
They will then spend the next two weeks sorting out the fine details of the hierarchy.
If it doesn’t go well in neutral territory on bonding day, then the bonding is a failure and you have to put them back in separate cages and leave them permanently separate.
1 Introduction
2 Pre-bonding
- Quarantine and sexing
- The need for a plan B
- The rule-breaker: Youngsters under 4 months (sub-teenage)
3 Setting up an introduction
- Getting to know each other
- ‘Buddy baths’ – why not
- Scent swapping - why not
- Setting up a neutral bonding area
- How to start the bonding
4 Acceptance phase: Do we like...