Bonding - don't think it went too well!

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Hi all,

I was wondering if I could have a bit of advice - some of what I have read conflicts slightly.

We have two 6 month old boars who we have had since August, and generally speaking they get on fine. There is a bit of purring and some bum wiggling but no teeth chattering and no fights.

We rescued two other boars who were roughly about the same age last week. It's quite clear they have rarely been handled and they are very very scatty - constantly running around the cage when you try and pick them up and Scruffy is quite dominant with Snoopy (possibly more so than the original two boars) - again, no teeth chattering or major fights, just a bit of mounting - Snoopy actually usually popcorns after Scruffy has chased him for a while.

Today we decided to see if we could possibly bond them. We know that boars are a bit more difficult to bond and are quite happy, if they don't get along, to separate the two pairs to the original pairing.

We laid out a massive space in the spare room, where they have never been before as the two original boars had run around the living room lots before.

We put Gilles and Banana down (original boars) and they had a little squeak and run around, and then we placed Scruffy down too. I don't know whether I should have just kept either Gilles or Banana out, and the other one in the cage - maybe the two of them against the new boar was too much.

Anyway, Gilles (who is the passive boar) went to Scruffy after a little while - no teeth chattering, had a sniff for about 30 seconds and then all hell broke lose. Massive, loud teeth chattering. Once Gilles set off, Banana followed suit, even though he was no where near Scruffy. Scruffy was actually completely unphased by the whole ordeal - just pottering around, no teeth chattering. Gilles would occasionally try and approach Scruffy but as soon as he was about 8cm away from him he would start this loud teeth chattering again and run away. Scruffy was quite inquisitive and went to follow Gilles and then they lunged at each other - both flew in the air and jumped off one another - the only person who was injured was my OH who was quite near (which may have made the ordeal harder for them - he wanted to be near in case they needed to be separated with a towel). No blood was shed and no fur lost.

After that Gilles and Banana were very agitated and would not stop chattering. At this point I didn't know whether to just let them get on with it, but I'm such a wuss (or sensible, I don't know) that I put Gilles and Banana in their cage and Scruffy in his.

Scruffy was fine - went to go and nibble on some food. Gilles and Banana on the other hand spent about ten minutes chattering at EACH OTHER (never happened before) and getting very forceful with one another. Little nips, and a LOT of bum wiggling with constant chattering. We put some veg in their cage and when this didn't stop it, we got them both out individually and held them separately to try and calm them down. This seemed to work and now they seem okay - although quite tired.

My OH is convinced we need to give it another go - he really wanted to have them all together. Again, no blood was shed and I've read conflicting reports that say once they have lunged at one another it's near impossible for them to bond, whereas another report said providing no blood was shed it should be fine to try again.

I have read that washing them ALL before bonding may help - which, if we try again, we will absolutely do. We didn't even try and put Snoopy in the mix - he is quite passive so maybe we should have tried him first.

I'm really upset by what happened, mainly because I feel I have let them all down and harmed them in some way (although not outwardly). It would break my heart if I had done something wrong and if I have I am truly sorry because my guinea pigs mean the world to me.

We won't be able to try bonding them again until after Christmas anyway as we are going away to my Mum's and my OH's Mum will be looking after them. But obviously, if the signs above suggest we shouldn't try and bond them at all, we won't.

Any advice would be very gratefully received.

Many thanks xox
 
Don't try bonding them all together again.

Boars work best in pairs. Trios occasionally work if they are adult pigs with carefully matched characters.

If you try again, you may end up with 4 pigs that won't tolerate each other at all, including potentially having to split your existing pairs. You can already see the bond between Giles and Banana being tested by the intrusion of another pig.

I'd strongly advise keeping them as pairs.
 
Don't try bonding them all together again.

Boars work best in pairs. Trios occasionally work if they are adult pigs with carefully matched characters.

If you try again, you may end up with 4 pigs that won't tolerate each other at all, including potentially having to split your existing pairs. You can already see the bond between Giles and Banana being tested by the intrusion of another pig.


I'd strongly advise keeping them as pairs.

Thanks Amanda, this is what I thought. We didn't rescue the new piggies with the explicit intention of bonding them, we just thought we would see. When Gilles and Banana started on one another, that's when I thought I DEFINITELY didn't want to risk trying again because although they are not really close, they clearly value each other - when one isn't in the cage the other one squeaks for his friend.

I will show this thread to my OH - he is convinced we should try again in a couple of days. I know my guinea pigs though as I spend the most time with them (I'm not saying he doesn't love them because he does, but he is just trying to play happy families) and for Gilles and Banana to start on one another is absolutely unheard of.
 
Mixing 2 pairs of bonded males is asking for trouble, please don't try again.

Also it would have been wise to have quarantined your new arrivals for a minimum of two weeks before introducing them to the same area (let alone cage) as your existing pigs. It would be such a shame if they brought something with them that affected your pigs.

Please watch out for any changes in the coat condition, breathing, food intake, poo/wee and weight.

HTH

Suzy
 
Mixing 2 pairs of bonded males is asking for trouble, please don't try again.

Also it would have been wise to have quarantined your new arrivals for a minimum of two weeks before introducing them to the same area (let alone cage) as your existing pigs. It would be such a shame if they brought something with them that affected your pigs.

Please watch out for any changes in the coat condition, breathing, food intake, poo/wee and weight.

HTH

Suzy

Thank you Suzy for your input.

They were not placed in the cage together just as a FYI. It was in a neutral area, and was only one of the new piggies, not both (ie, was a trio of piggies, rather than two pairs up against each other). Also, the new piggies had been checked out by a vet to confirm their sex and whether there was any illness prior to coming to us, which is the only reason we decided to try and bond them today otherwise I would have quarantined them.

I feel awful now, like I have let them all down and that I shouldn't be a piggie mummy.
 
I am really not coping well with what happened earlier today. I feel absolutely horrible that it didn't work out for their sake and I feel like I am now going to be judged on here - I really, really hope that isn't the case as I find this forum invaluable and a real source of happiness in my life due to depression and anxiety.

Please know I would do absolutely NOTHING to deliberately hurt ANY of my piggies - new or old.
 
Don't worry about it. It would probably have been best to do a bit more research before trying to bond both pairs, but it is all done now and no harm has been done. Your boars will definitely be happier in their existing pairs. We all make mistakes with our piggies from time to time.
 
From my experience when they reach the age of about 4 or 5 years there is a chance they may all be able to live together. I have managed to get 4 old boys to have an afternoon in the garden together, watching very carefully and all of them bar 1 were really not that bothered about the other boys. I had a trio of old boys living together, they absolutely loved each other, would snuggle up together in a line but I believe this is quite rare and needs careful monitoring. As your boys are so young I would definately keep them in their pairs. There is still a chance the new pair will fall out as in my experience anywhere between 6 months and 18 months for boys to fall out.
 
I am really not coping well with what happened earlier today. I feel absolutely horrible that it didn't work out for their sake and I feel like I am now going to be judged on here - I really, really hope that isn't the case as I find this forum invaluable and a real source of happiness in my life due to depression and anxiety.

Please know I would do absolutely NOTHING to deliberately hurt ANY of my piggies - new or old.

Don't worry! You tried, it didn't work out but no harm has come to anyone ad now with a bit of extra advice you know how to go on. It's nice to have groups of piggies and my 4 boys used to share floor time when they were little but now they are getting more stroppy and cantankerous they just stay in their two pairs and talk through the bars.

Piggies are an excellent way to make you feel good, mine have seen me through some real tough patches so don't beat yourself up, just enjoy you lovely boys and spoil them rotten!

People shouldn't judge, if you are sensible and take advice. We all made mistakes and most of us still make them occassionally, it's only when advice is given time and time again but no-one listens that people get a bit narked. x
 
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