Backing one of my horses, Binki.

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Hello everyone!
I wanted to share my work with Binki, and also this will hopefully give me some motivation to keep up the training and not be slack!
A couple of weeks ago I made it my mission to get back into my horses. The past few years I’d lost a lot of my confidence and motivation in riding and training my horses.
Binki, My 8-9year old Brumby is overdue to be saddle started/ backed (broken in..I just don’t like the term). I first meet Binki 6 years ago. At the Brumby sanctuary I was volunteering at, He had been caught (by the government/parks) some time in the past year from the wild and was ready to start training. Never touched by a human before I began gaining his trust. It took many weeks to finally be able to stroke him and get a halter on, He was quite a challenge. Fearful and uncertain of what I was asking he would often turn his bum to me to avoid contact. Not to kick me, but to block me out.
I wish Brumbies could stay wild, forever. But the lucky ones get join the human world and sadly the Australian government slaughter and cull the unlucky ones.
Once I could confidently lead Binki around the confined and safe yard we started taking big steps outside the yard, green picking out on little walks which is a pleasant and positive experience for them when they feel safe enough around you to eat.

Binki in 2017
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Our travels were urging us on before returning home to England. Binki was turned out in a large paddock along with Cappa, another extremely fearful Brumby I was training so they could process what they’d learnt with me, grown up a little, have some time off until it was their turn to find a home.

Fast forward a year later, I was back in Australia and to my pleasant surprise Binki and Cappa were still at the sanctuary ready and waiting more training from me

..fast forward a little more time..

We needed up moving to Australia and of course..Naturally I bought Binki and Cappa. The three of us were bonded, and good friends.

Now..Fast forward a few more years and Binki has suddenly gone from a lanky playful 2 year old to a fat and cheeky 8/9 year old.
I started ground work in preparation for backing a few years ago. Teaching him to lunge, long rein (horse talk, sorry if you’re not horsey reading this!). Wear a saddle etc etc. And then I stopped doing much except for the odd bush walk in hand.

That leads us to now.

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Binki is ready, past ready to be ridden. So a couple of weeks ago I bought him back into education. Preparing to sit on him for the first time. I did lots of work at the mounting block, jumping up and down, leaning over his back, putting my leg over until finally..having an actual sit.
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He was awesome! He hardly seemed to care, he turned his head to sniff my foot. For which I gave him a bit rub on his forehead to tell him ‘it’s okay’ I got on and off a few times, just to practice the mounting. And also shuffled my weight on his back slightly.
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The next day I did exactly the same, And encouraged him to move on a little, either in a straight line or in a tight circle. Nothing big, just small steps. With lots and lots of praise and lots of time.
He felt great, He felt unsure of course..this is new to him. But he’s prepared with all the other education we’ve done, He knows it’s just the next step and he’s trying to work out what we’re trying to achieve.

Most people think of horses being ‘broken in’ think that the horse will buck, run off and go a little crazy at least.. That’s what you see in the movies, And often unfortunately what you see ‘in real life’ on social media.
But they are horses reacting to a situation they are not prepared for. They’ve been rushed, huge important steps have been skipped. There’s no trust, and certainly no relationship. A horse never forgets his first ride if it’s a bad one, You’ve immediately set the horse up for failure. He will be worried for future rides, He hasn’t learnt. He’s just trying to survive.

Binki was showing me that he was processing all that he was learning, So I gave him a few days off before our next session.
On our third session he was just a sound as the last, If not more. He knew what to expect. It was no big deal. This time I asked for a little more, a few more steps on each walk. Asking him to stop very regularly in order to praise him and also test the breaks.
There was a few times where he would get a little confused, and back up instead of going forward..his way of saying ‘I don’t get it, I can’t do this, it’s too hard mum!’ I just remain calm, keep talking to him and once he stops I give him a pat and ask again.

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I was absolutely chuffed with our third session. His response to such a new big and scary (for both of us!) event has been superb and I’m so proud of him!
So far I haven’t sat on him with a saddle. This is because I want him to feel me, to feel my movements which will help him understand what I’m asking. And also it’s less worrying for him, the saddle is extra weight. And thirdly, I feel safer that I can just slip off quickly if anything went wrong.
Binki is also wearing a bitless bridle. There is no bit that goes in his mouth. I’m not against them..But for my Brumbies I don’t feel a bit is necessary.
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I didn’t intended on writing such an essay, I do apologise and thank anyone who bothered to read all that haha! I was just going to share some photos of the ridden process but then thought I’d add a bit of background information and before I knew it I’ve gone overboard haha. Although I’m saying that, I of course haven’t explained much of the process. There has been a lot of preparation and training over the years that I have brushed over without explaining.

Also, just to add. I’m not a professional. Binki is the second horse I have backed. Cappa being my first, Cappa responded to his first rides just the same as Binki. I enjoyed riding Cappa for a summer before losing my confidence in teaching him the next steps and since then I have only worked him about 3 times in the past 2 years. Which is a real shame. My hope in starting Binki is to learn more, get my confidence back (in my abilities). And then get back to Cappa.

It’s winter now and I know my motivation is going to decline in the cold weather, so I’m hoping that sharing this thread will give me some inspiration to keep going and share the progress.

Me with Binki and Cappa
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❤️ one of the many things my horse taught me - patience, slow and steady. Keep going through winter now you’ve started - get a good coat 😂Sounds like you’re building great trust with Binki and Cappa x
 
❤️ one of the many things my horse taught me - patience, slow and steady. Keep going through winter now you’ve started - get a good coat 😂Sounds like you’re building great trust with Binki and Cappa x
That’s exactly right. There is absolutely no rush, Slow and steady. He can take as long as he needs to learn!
 
The past 2 days I’ve just done a little ground work, helping him work out the steering a bit better with me on the ground.
Today I had another little riding session. It was good..but not the best.
I took a long time faffing around at the mounting block getting him in the perfect position for me to feel comfortable getting on smoothly. This annoyed him, and he kept moving, which took us a lot longer to achieve what ‘I’ wanted. In turn, I did him no favours by faffing around so much. In fact in me trying to teach him to stand perfectly at the mounting block I’ve accomplished the complete opposite. I was also using treats..which made him slightly rude. All my mistakes.
Finally I got on, He was fine after finding his feet by backing up a little. But then he decided to quit school and go and eat hay with the other horses..I just sat on top as he plodded over lol. I got off once he got there and started again.
.. another 5 minutes at the mounting block I got on again. Today I felt he wasn’t listening much to me at all, he wasn’t listening or perhaps not understanding my cues to walk on. He was just doing his own thing and standing solid while I was urging him to move.
In the end, He told me to stop pressuring him. I felt his back arch slightly and he curved his neck and threw his head in the air. A sure sign of a potential buck. Instead of letting that happen I slid off. Perhaps the wrong thing to do..But I was alone. Jon isn’t home and I don’t want to put myself in an unsafe position.
He didn’t do anything wrong, He simply just told me that I was making mistakes.
The other horses had also come over to be nosey at this point which didn’t help Binkis confidence..they were too close.
I decided to get back on, just for a moment. For my sake and his. He stood well, I gave him a pat and got off.
Now I’m trying not to feel down about todays session. And instead look at where I went wrong.
It’s made me see that I need some help for a while, someone to help guide me. Unfortunately I can’t get Jon to help me lead Binki while I’m riding as he is nervous around the horses and that’s not what Binki or I need.
I may have to give up Pottery classes for a while and get an instructor/trainer. I can’t afford both at the moment.
I don’t want to get to the point I did with Cappa, where I get stuck and the horse loses trust in me.
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Just out of shot, but here is his little moment of saying he’s had enough..
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I so loved reading those posts.
You have such an infinity and understanding of horses.( and all animals actually 😂)
Listening to Binki being the important thing always.
You will get there and a trainer/instructor will give you both the guidance and support and advice you need.
You can go back to your pottery later ❤️
You have come so far the last couple of years Hannah …..you can do this 🥰
 
Is he moving forward once you’re on?
Some of the most valuable advice I was given, especially with youngsters, was “if the horse is forward, it can’t be wrong”. It’s very tempting to remove pressure if they protest a little, but that’s when the pressure needs to stay on. He will learn that the pressure is taken away once he gives the correct response. Be careful that you removing pressure (getting off) when he responds negatively, is not resulting in him learning that that’s how to get out of his ridden work. Hope that makes sense

How’s the ground work going? Is he forward off of your voice? Embed this into ridden sessions. Do have an extra pair of hands on the ground. Looks like you’re in quite a large open space, have you got access to a round pen/arena space? To minimise distractions etc?

Keep up the great work! Babies are such a challenge.
 
Is he moving forward once you’re on?
Some of the most valuable advice I was given, especially with youngsters, was “if the horse is forward, it can’t be wrong”. It’s very tempting to remove pressure if they protest a little, but that’s when the pressure needs to stay on. He will learn that the pressure is taken away once he gives the correct response. Be careful that you removing pressure (getting off) when he responds negatively, is not resulting in him learning that that’s how to get out of his ridden work. Hope that makes sense

How’s the ground work going? Is he forward off of your voice? Embed this into ridden sessions. Do have an extra pair of hands on the ground. Looks like you’re in quite a large open space, have you got access to a round pen/arena space? To minimise distractions etc?

Keep up the great work! Babies are such a challenge.

Once I get on he stands, and then I ask him to move on. When he moves forward I take all pressure off. Often though he goes backwards first, to which I gently keep my leg on and wait for him to either stop or go forward.
When he’s moving forward I release pressure.
Ground work is good, we’ve been doing it for years. He lunges well and understands voice commands. We yield and practice turning, stopping etc. He seemed to understand the long reining well, so felt like getting on board was a good next step.
Definitely room for improvement on the ground work though..I’m going to go back a few steps now, after todays session. Do a lot more long reining and reinforce voice commands.

No I don’t have anyone consistently available to help me unfortunately. Which is why I’m struggling, as I’m often on my own and don’t like to add to much pressure to Binki while I’m alone and could get hurt. We don’t have an arena or round yard. I don’t mind being in an open space with him, But will put the other horses in the other paddock next time!

Thanks! Will do! Even though he’s 8 years old it’s exactly the same as backing a 4year old baby. Thanks for the advice and encouragement :)
 
Once I get on he stands, and then I ask him to move on. When he moves forward I take all pressure off. Often though he goes backwards first, to which I gently keep my leg on and wait for him to either stop or go forward.
When he’s moving forward I release pressure.
Ground work is good, we’ve been doing it for years. He lunges well and understands voice commands. We yield and practice turning, stopping etc. He seemed to understand the long reining well, so felt like getting on board was a good next step.
Definitely room for improvement on the ground work though..I’m going to go back a few steps now, after todays session. Do a lot more long reining and reinforce voice commands.

No I don’t have anyone consistently available to help me unfortunately. Which is why I’m struggling, as I’m often on my own and don’t like to add to much pressure to Binki while I’m alone and could get hurt. We don’t have an arena or round yard. I don’t mind being in an open space with him, But will put the other horses in the other paddock next time!

Thanks! Will do! Even though he’s 8 years old it’s exactly the same as backing a 4year old baby. Thanks for the advice and encouragement :)

Sorry didn’t realise he was 8!
It’s definitely like starting young, except he’ll be physically & mentally stronger (which isn’t always a bad thing)!

I second getting a good coach. For that support from the ground. Do any of your friends ride? We find taking freshly backed ones out on the trails to teach them forwards definitely works. Do you know anyone could ride with you and give a lead to start off?

That’s great that he’s good with the ground work. So the foundations are there! 😊

We’ve got a couple recently backed at the moment, but so far proving quite straight forward. Makes a nice change! 😂 the students have put the hours in on the ground, as you have. It really pays off
 
Sorry didn’t realise he was 8!
It’s definitely like starting young, except he’ll be physically & mentally stronger (which isn’t always a bad thing)!

I second getting a good coach. For that support from the ground. Do any of your friends ride? We find taking freshly backed ones out on the trails to teach them forwards definitely works. Do you know anyone could ride with you and give a lead to start off?

That’s great that he’s good with the ground work. So the foundations are there! 😊

We’ve got a couple recently backed at the moment, but so far proving quite straight forward. Makes a nice change! 😂 the students have put the hours in on the ground, as you have. It really pays off

Yeah he’s not a baby anymore! :)) He took a long time to mature physically though!

I do have 2 friends that ride, but they’re not local and also..not reliable. I’m thinking about joining local riding clubs to make some horsey friends in the area. I just need to pluck up the courage!
With my older Brumby, Cappa who I backed a few years ago I did just that. After about 5 rides at home we went on a 3 day camping trip in the bush with friends. Cappa just marched along following or leading the others, it was great. Most of the other people actually had cart horses which was interesting for Cappa!

I’m going to focus on improving his ground work for a few days.
And also just do some simple in-hand bush walking to give him a break from thinking too much!
I was rather disheartened with myself from todays ride. But really I’m over reacting, He was a good boy and I just made mistakes. It’s just reminded me to refreshen those foundations.
Onwards and upwards (And find a mentor!)
 
Ah he’s gorgeous Hannah ❤️
We all mistakes and that’s how we learn …. and Binki just wants to please you
Don’t be too hard on yourself …..you’ve got this
It’s sounds a fab idea to meet some other horse riders locally who are likely going thru or gone thru just what you are
Looking forward to hearing more ….🥰
 
Yeah he’s not a baby anymore! :)) He took a long time to mature physically though!

I do have 2 friends that ride, but they’re not local and also..not reliable. I’m thinking about joining local riding clubs to make some horsey friends in the area. I just need to pluck up the courage!
With my older Brumby, Cappa who I backed a few years ago I did just that. After about 5 rides at home we went on a 3 day camping trip in the bush with friends. Cappa just marched along following or leading the others, it was great. Most of the other people actually had cart horses which was interesting for Cappa!

I’m going to focus on improving his ground work for a few days.
And also just do some simple in-hand bush walking to give him a break from thinking too much!
I was rather disheartened with myself from todays ride. But really I’m over reacting, He was a good boy and I just made mistakes. It’s just reminded me to refreshen those foundations.
Onwards and upwards (And find a mentor!)

It’s too easy to be hard on yourself! But we all do it. Woody and I can have an amazing training session, and then some days I feel like we are out of our depth competing at this level, when it doesn’t go as well. But these are animals we are working with, they have good and bad days too. The great days happen when you’re both on top form! That’s what makes it all worth it

Definitely onwards and upwards! Winter can be very hard to keep motivated. I have music on when riding, I find that can sometimes help

Good luck, and keep us posted!
 
I am not sure how far our of town you live, but one possibility would be to advertise for someone local to come and ride with you.
Many years ago (many, many) this is how I first got into riding in Australia. I used to go out to a farm and ride with their daughter who was close to my age. Her father was very into riding and his daughter wasn't, so he felt it would be more fun if she had a friend closer to her age to mess around with. In exchange I got to ride a variety of horses, and also got lessons from him disguised as games that the two of us would play on horseback.

I think you would be surprised at how many other adults there are out there who would love to get back into riding but maybe don't have the time, space or finances for a horse of their own.

It is hard when you are on your own too - it is natural to be cautious - but maybe having some company would boost your confidence and having someone else around to encourage the progress you are clearly making would no doubt be a huge bonus.
 
Hello!
Sorry I went quiet. Admittedly I haven’t done much with Binki for a couple of weeks. Winter IS tough. And I had covid, and then worked solid for a while. And my headaches and migraine have been terrible for the past week..
But it’s all excuses..

We have done a little here and there though. Just some fun in-hand work. A nice walk down the road. Play over some jumps (He is never going to be a show jumper with his jumping skills and style! 😆 ). And we’ve also been fine tuning our vocal commands on the lunge etc.

I had organised a lesson/coach/trainer to come out today for the first time. I was really looking forward to it but she unfortunately cancelled on me. Probably good job as I ended up with a bad headache once again.
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Ah Binki is doing well - we’re not all show jumpers 🌟🥰
You have both come so far and it’s lovely to see ❤️
 
Hello all!
I should have know better that I wouldn’t get motivated at the start of winter! But even if I just do the odd session with my horses over winter to prepare for spring it’s better than nothing.
I was meant to take Binki and Cappa to a lesson day with a Horsemanship type woman last week. But unfortunately we got rained off and it’s been postponed. And I’m not sure if I’ll pluck up the courage to attend next time..but we’ll see!

My friend and I have chatted a bit lately, we’ve decided we much help each other. We’re both limited to what we can do on our own so we are going to have horsey days together where we help each other and just do fun things like going for in-Hand bush walks with the horses. She’s very knowledgeable so she will be a great help with Binki. Just someone one the ground so I don’t feel alone and worried will be fabulous!

In the meantime I have had a couple of little rides of Cappa, As I said before I broke him in a couple of years ago. But he hasn’t been ridden or had saddle on for over a year maybe. Despite that, He was such a good boy when I popped on the other day. He remembered the basics and we just had a little walk around for 10 minutes, He felt great. However he is like riding an ironing board compared to Binki and Lucy! He’s SO narrow! He does very much need to gain muscle, he’s always struggled with to keep extra muscle and fat on. He’s a worrier and not a good-doer like the others. He’s not skinny. Just not fat, and a bit backwards looking. I’m going to get his teeth done again soon, see if their is an underlying problem there that could be contributing.
He’s such a sweetie though.
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Lucy seems to need the chiropractor, It’s extremely unusual for her not to let me get on. Yet the past few weeks she’s refused and seemed uncomfortable when I go to swing my leg over.
I’m just waiting for the Chiro to be able to come out.
She’s 21 years old, And totally deserves to say NO if she wants.
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I took Binki and Cappa for a Bush walk the other week, they were great. Except Cappa marches and Binki doddles.. Therefore my arms get stretched to their limit lol.
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The 4 of them are get friends and a lovely herd.
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Great idea to join up with your friend. My friend and I both have horses who aren‘t very brave - riding out can be a challenge if we encounter a leaf that’s the wrong colour or a branch that wasn’t there yesterday. We walk them out in hand a lot and have a good laugh at the same time. Patience, time and kindness is all that works 🐎😂
 
That’s a wonderful idea to have a horse friend to give you confidence …..you know it’s there and just need to unlock it🥰
I love seeing and hearing about Binki and Cappa - I hope Lucy is ok after a visit from the chiro 🥰
 
Hello!
I haven’t been doing anything with Binki for a few weeks now.
All the horses had the Chiropractor a couple of weeks back, Lucy had tight shoulders, Cappa, sore Poll/neck and somewhere in his backend (I can’t remember now!). But nothing a little chiro and rest can’t cure.
Binki looks to have arthritic changes to one of his front Knees. Something to keep an eye on. But I’m not overly concerned.

I’ve had a few little Bush walks with Cappa which has been nice.

And I’ve also ridden Lucy a few times too,
In fact yesterday I was extremely brave and adventurous and I rode her down the train line to watch the ‘Grain Lander ‘steam’ (diesel?) train’! I went all on my own and immediately regretted my decision when I was waiting for the train and could hear its loud horn way off in the distance. But it was too late to turn back! Though I need not have worried. Lucy was fantastic, She wasn’t much bothered about the Train, its steam, its horn, and its size and speed. But she was however.. VERY suspicious of the Alpaca in the paddock next to where we was standing 🤣
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Well done Hannah and Lucy ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so pleased the chiro worked their magic and it’s nothing serious for Binki,Cappa or Lucy
 
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