ANNOYED AND UPSET

[lilgalnatalie]

Today i went in to school, feeling ill.
not only was i feeling in the dumbs, but then i hear rumours going around
that i was goin out with a lad who is my mate and had sex with him and sum other rude things that are unapporpratie on the forum
being only 13, i have no mind of even thinking of these things than doin them!
a lad was spreading them i have named lad a, and 2 lads got told lads b and c.
lad a told me i was dirty, and i sed 'wat have i done' he sed sumthing i cudnt make out,
so i asked who he was talking 2 lad c wat he was saying.
he told me 'i was gonna hav sex my friend'
and then lad b shouted out in a class of 32 a rude thing 'i had done' to my friend.
by now id had enuf and stomed out of the classroom filing up with tears, i reported it to my year head who sed she wud deal with it
i spent the lesson in learning support got bak 2 my classroom where i lad pulled a hoodie over my face (which is actually painful!)
and people were tellin me i was goin out with my friend
i was still a bit tearful and i broke down, while telling my mate wat was goin on.
i got taken out of the lesson, where i seen the yearhead who dealt with it, lad a lied.
and i was told i was being over senstive about it because of hormones and such.
the lads were all told off.
wow.
my dad is furious and has went over lad b's house right now, I'm worried cuz consquences will be worse for me. I'm refusing to go school.
i think i've lost the plot now. at one point i felt like walkiing out, and i cried to much to keep my rep at school up. i feel so down. i hate bullies.

 

[sars1359]

*sighs n hugs*
I know just how you feel ,i got all that crap at school and at work and now ive lost my job today because of " girls that backstab and stick together"

bullies are complete cowards and theyre pathetic when theyre on their own

 

[michellemuffin]

grrrrrrr wish you was my daughter I would be so mad , if my daughter gets any thing like this happen they would be mad as she has 4 older brothers who would all be absolutly furious she is their princess they do get mad with her but no one does do anything to upset her,
it is true though that hormones play a big part in your emotions and you must understand that the bullys are as already said cowards are they worth letting them see you upset, NO WAY get mad at them girl, tell them to grow up and stop acting stupid I always advise my kids to make them look stupid its always worked with the boys all 4 of them, think of good things not idiots like these twits

 

[gothchick1515]

I was bullied at school and i hated it too, and i was in the same situation as you my two best mates where guys and i had all that! its horrible but you told your head of year and your parents so you might get somewhere, the bad thing about rumours is they spread but soon they die down, it does make you feel sad i know because i had it for nearly 9 years in junior and senior school, i used 2 hide in the loos all break and lunch. hopefully your head of year will sort it all out and your dad will probably have some impact if it does turn out to be a negative one then tell him not to talk to them again my mum was like that they mean well but it back fires sometimes, they are all losers! you know you didnt do those things and in the end thats the best thing! all of your friends must know you didnt rally together and get them to support you if they hear things thats what i did, and drop me a message if you wanna chat some more ive been there and come through it the other side! xx

 

[Glynis]

Rotten little , can't help themselves, they're just big noting TYPICAL boy trash talk.
If that happened to my Dee i'd go beserk at the school too. Hope your Dad's ok and nothing bad happened.
Love you've got to go to school too show that you're better than them. Ask one of your girlfriends to go
to school with you so you've got some support.
Wishing you all the best, stick your head up high and know that you're a good person :-*

 

[Lucinda]

So sorry about this. My best friends were guys too, and it can provoke stupidity among the less intelligent people.

Like verity I also had a crap time at school. I still get screwed up thinking about it. Do email me if you would like to talk/ ask me anything.

The "good" thing is that you have tried to knock this on the head today, rather than letting it go on for weeks so it all gets out of control. I do hope things calm down.

I'm here, any time x